By friskeyk14 - 04/10/2011 07:04 - United States
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I would be so weirded out if my hubby/S.O came to me with a sex calendar who keeps the dates marked down? That's just not normal get a life honey, I hope you still have a boyfriend after showing him the sex calendar and how much he's lacking isn't there anything else important in your relationship that it's not all sex? If it's the sex that keeps you guys together it's time to call it quits as that's not love nor a long lasting relationship YDI
obvious point: its a month. people have low periods, mapping it on a calendar just makes you look like an obsessed psycho. youve also made him feel pressured to perform, so goodluck with that. by the way, almost triple the number of hits tells me the calendar wasnt blank...and yet youre complaining. YDI.
I totally agree! Of course right now me and my guy are doing it we have a relationship that is based on other things besides sex. The only thing is that it is very frustrating right now since i really really want it now can not wait for later! Maybe put on some sexy lingerie or watch **** with him to get him in the mood again. I might try that this soon myself.
I'm not sure if a calender and calculations works on him, but to me that just sounded like a total mood kill
Stats? I wouldn't be thrilled with this sort of presentation either. Communication is great but method of delivery is important. If you want more sex, try initiating more sex. Or try telling him what you want, how, when, and where you want it. If he doesn't respond, I doubt charts will change his mind.
32 is totally right... I should totally start communicating about what kind of sex life I want with a calender. Or you know, I could just communicate by saying something. I'm fairly certain that most men and women would prefer any other method than just "here are the stats, now lets get busy." *Shows calender* I find it disturbing that she needs to mark each day she has sex... is this like evidence or something?
Ya 32 it may be communication but it's terrible. Instead why not just say hey I want more sex. Quite simple and you shouldn't get any mixups. As for the calendar if it's gotten to that point where she has to present it that way maybe she should switch up what she's doing cause sounds like whatever she's doing isn't right.
I appreciate the fact that you're keeping score and wanting MORE sex, but if I was your boyfriend, I'd be a little weirded out that you're keeping score.
who keeps a calendar of how many times they crack? ydi for being a super creep and keeping up with those numbers, I wouldn't hump you either.
On the bright side: you had less chance of accidentally on the less month. Unless you were actually trying to get pregnant and that is why you wanted the amount of times to improve