By Anonymous - 04/07/2018 19:00
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That says a lot about what kind of brother you’ve been during your first 30 years.
I mean, you may not be mistaken, but sometimes people are just shitty. For instance, I have a friend (or so I think at least) who I haven't had any problems with, we're not each other's besties and hang out every day, but we're on friendly terms. I tried to set up a cinema date with them weeks in advance, no cost to him as I get free tickets. This took ages to sort out because rather than just deciding on the cinema and the time to meet, cause he is just so flaky it took me a week to narrow down a cinema, another week to narrow down a screening and on the day he tried to bail 'because he wasn't sure if he could afford the free ticket'. Some people are just shit and it has nothing to do with you.
Did they RSVP for this celebration, so that you could reasonably expect them to show? If they did not, you were basically making plans for someone without their consent. If they did, then, yeah, your siblings are toxic people and you should probably cut them out of your life.