By ELLI - 02/10/2017 04:30
Add a comment - Reply to : #
I've been in a situation like that before. I know it's really heart wrenching and devastating now, but cut them out of your life. If they can't value you as much as you value them, then they are not going to start anytime soon. Trust me, when college/work/adult life comes, those are when you make mature and less superficial friends.
I don't believe I would call them friends. I probably wouldn't do anything to ruin my birthday (thereby making myself feel worse), but I would carefully reconsider those whom I would choose the call friends in the future. By the way, did this group include your "best friend" or boyfriend? If so, cut them out IMMEDIATELY, as they clearly didn't consider your feelings AT ALL, on your special day.