Today, I love my partner but also have negative thoughts as well. She stopped being interested in me about 6 months into our relationship. We have been together for 12 years. We have made love on 3 different occasions in the last 4 years. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I found out that my partner of 18 years has officially decided that our physical relationship is over. We hadn’t been intimate since my youngest was conceived 5 years ago. I had always held out hope that it would come again, but now I have been told it’s over and I’m at a loss at what to do. I still love her. FML
Today, my partner of 4 years has told me that trying to be emotionally present and initiate affection from time to time is too much of a change for them to handle. I wish they had said that the first time I brought it up, instead of stringing me along. Oh, but they "love me". Just not enough to be a better person. FML
Today, I'm realizing the woman I've been in love with for 8 years has become completely disinterested in me. I can't even connect on a basic, "How was your day?" level without her her zoning out or getting lost in her phone, only to apologize when I say something and then not even ask what I had to say. We have 2 kids now. FML
Today, my wife told me how she really felt about me, and said she didn't love me anymore. We got married last month. FML
Today, the guy I've talking to for the past 8 months just celebrated his six month 'anniversary' with his girlfriend. He picked her over me, but we agreed to be just friends. My feelings haven’t gone away, though. I can’t help but be jealous and depressed every time he posts about their relationship. FML
Today, my girlfriend, who I've been living with for the last month, told me she's not attracted to me and wants to see other people. She told me this after months of dating and telling me she was thinking about having a child with me. FML
Today, after celebrating our 5 year anniversary, my girl told me that’s she loves me, but is not in love with me. FML
Today, after years in a relationship I realized that my partner does not like the music I listen to, the food I cook, the pictures I take, the way I dress. The only thing she likes is when I take her out to eat. FML
Today, I fell in love with a girl who used to love me. She doesn't anymore. FML
Today, my wife admitted she loves me as a father to our children, but is no longer attracted to me. FML
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Top comments
Sdog 6
Time to go. Better for both of you in the long run.
Anderling 33
Literally both of you deserve better than this, my guy.
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Comments (6)
Sdog 6
Time to go. Better for both of you in the long run.
Anderling 33
Literally both of you deserve better than this, my guy.
Crowned Sataness 12
yeah you should have been gone 11.5 years ago. living in misery for convenience is no way to live
Iamthebanzai22 21
Why the blue **** are you still together?
Sonotsuave 37
I’m sorry, what? The time to leave was right at those 6 months in, not 11 and a half years later!! Leave
JasonThorn 23
Let me bring up the concept of "Sunk Cost Fallacy," AKA "Gambler's Ruin"... Should have gone to couple's counseling or broke up when things started going south, rather than wait (checks notes) OVER A DECADE in the hopes things will improve.