Tricky situation

By fml9124 - 08/10/2020 10:01 - United States - Omaha

Today, my wife gave me the green light to have sex with other women. She beat the cancer, but sex for her is now painful and she wasn't really interested in sex the last 10 years anyway. So why does my life suck? Because I don't want sex with anyone else. Now she's mad at me for making her feel guilty. FML

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By Anonymous - 28/09/2023 04:00

Today, my wife lost interest in sex a long time ago. I’ve tried to reignite her interest lately, which culminated in an argument where she gave me permission to go out and shag other women. We might as well divorce at this point if she’s going to say things like that. FML

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Take care

By Anonymous - 16/12/2020 08:02

Today, after close to 10 years of marriage, my wife’s health has improved enough she is craving sex again. Just not with me. FML

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Bad timing, hun

By Anonymous - 19/01/2023 22:00

Today, I just had surgery and my wife finally wants to have sex. Not that there haven't been enough other days in the previous years of marriage… FML

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Karma police

By Anonymous - 26/07/2022 22:00

Today, six months after my wife convinced me to open our relationship, I finally scored with a lovely lady. My wife threw the biggest fit in history. Apparently, she just wanted to fuck other men and didn't think anyone would be interested in me, and now she feels inadequate and threatened. FML

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By Anonymous - 24/04/2016 12:46 - Switzerland - Chur

Today, my wife is treating me like I'm the devil, all because I refused to go on medication that would kill my sex drive, just so she wouldn't have to deal with me actually wanting to make love more than once a year. FML

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By B - 04/02/2012 01:17 - United States

Today, my wife screamed at me, calling me a "useless, ungrateful piece of crap", all because I wouldn't have sex with her, despite hours of her nagging. I said no because I've been laid-up in bed for the past week waiting on surgery for an excruciatingly painful hernia. FML

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Baby fever

By Anonymous - 12/06/2023 18:00

Today, my wife wanted sex, but dropped the bomb that she wants another baby, because our other kids are grown up now. This ruined the sexy vibe we had going and now she’s mad at me for not wanting sex, and for not wanting another baby when we barely survived parenting the other three. FML

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So frustrating!

By Marvin-jones - 02/03/2023 02:00

Today, my wife accused me of using her for sex. I'd only just admitted to her two days ago that I've been struggling to get it up to try and perform, after a hospital stay and a month of almost no sexual contact. FML

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Last trip

By cap - 09/12/2019 01:00 - United States - Manhattan

Today, I had sex with my wife only to be told that the sex was horrible and to be given divorce papers. FML

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By Anonymous - 10/06/2019 05:19 - United Kingdom - Oldbury

Today, my girlfriend broke up with me because I was too tired for sex, which she interpreted as me confessing to not wanting to have sex with her because I’m having sex with other women. FML

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Taylor Caldwell 10

Thursday 8 October 2020 17:03

This is so sad. Maybe you two could find new ways to connect sexually, try working with a therapist to find some ways that have agreeable for you both. Best of luck.

pieter82 17

Tuesday 6 October 2020 11:04

It should sound awesome, but I only feel sadness I wish you all the best, OP. Stay strong, both of you.

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pieter82 17

Tuesday 6 October 2020 11:04

It should sound awesome, but I only feel sadness I wish you all the best, OP. Stay strong, both of you.

sutima 23

Tuesday 6 October 2020 21:36

yea,I feel you. im in the same situation :(

Taylor Caldwell 10

Thursday 8 October 2020 17:03

This is so sad. Maybe you two could find new ways to connect sexually, try working with a therapist to find some ways that have agreeable for you both. Best of luck.

xxlk4xx 6

Thursday 8 October 2020 18:06

just tell her she has no need to feel guilty! you obviously have a lot of respect for her, I agree with maybe some therapy for both of you in that area, and just remind her that you married HER, not other women, I know for myself if my husband suddenly couldn't have sex with me anymore I still wouldnt be able to have sex with other men even if he gave me the green light.

RichardPencil 30

Thursday 8 October 2020 18:29

You need to find some crypto-zoologists and let them study you. They're always looking for proof that some mythical creature actually exists. They are trying to find Sasquatch, the Loch Ness Monster, the Yeti, the chupacabra, and the monogamous human being. You could give them a win!

Ethan Starkey 3

Thursday 8 October 2020 22:54

If you have kids and they are out of the house, it might be time to consider divorce if you guys can't find a way to have sex as well as connect emotionally. You deserve a complete/healthy/fulfilling/flourishing life. If her lack of sex is due to pain vaginally, then it might be easily fixable with some hormone therapies etc, which can, at the same time make her desire sex more. Good luck, truly.

bl3ur0z3 17

Friday 9 October 2020 3:49

That's kinda sweet and not really surprising. She probably would have felt jealous if you did want sex with other women. Question is, do you love her enough to honestly live without sex? My mother in law has survived 25 years with my impotent father in law. It can be done. If so, make sure she knows that. Hold her as often as you can and remind her that sex isn't everything, she's more to you than that.

John Raymond Matheney 6

Saturday 10 October 2020 20:31

bj's? vaginal isn't the only route to go, there are many

Taurus_ChicKa 36

Tuesday 13 October 2020 5:45

You, sir, are a rare specimen of mankind. Bless your heart. I agree with what others are saying, and maybe there are some other options out there for you both to be comfortable. Wishing you both the best!