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By  mfranks19891989  |  10

Sounds like your winning. I wouldn’t want to be with a jerk like that.
Even if you are bad at sex, for me that not a valid reason to break up. If she really care about you she would help you improve so sex could be more enjoyable for the both of you.

By  Sady_Ct  |  37

Before I slept with the man who is now my husband, we waited till we had strong feelings, apart from lust, for each other. When we finally did, OMFG HE WAS TERRIBLE. I seriously considered how to handle the situation as I didn’t want to leave him but I didn’t want to always have crappy sex. So I took the time to sit down and talk to him, communicate and work through it. Now, we both feel that sex together is the best either of us has had.

I say this to you, she didn’t love you, the divorce is the best thing for you. If she had of cared, she would have talked with you, not done what she has done.

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By  mfranks19891989  |  10

Sounds like your winning. I wouldn’t want to be with a jerk like that.
Even if you are bad at sex, for me that not a valid reason to break up. If she really care about you she would help you improve so sex could be more enjoyable for the both of you.

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  rotflqtms_  |  18

Who knows? Maybe she told him what she wanted, or he just cared to always do a quickie and never cared if she liked it or not and when he was done, so was the sex... Maybe there's more to the story and more was said... or maybe she's just a jerk. Hard to tell if it was really right after her saying that, or if she said it to hurt him in an argument when she was planning on doing it (jerk move to hurt someone tbh) But we only hear one side... Sucks OP. Work on you and listen to your partner. You'll find someone most likely who'll appreciate you. Sex isn't everything. You'd think she'd know about the sex before marriage... unless you guys waited... or unless you stopped trying to please her after marriage. Who knows?

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Every relationship needs Communication with out it things like this will happen or worse thing could happen.
If people communicated more I feel like there wouldn’t be as many messy divorces.

By  Sady_Ct  |  37

Before I slept with the man who is now my husband, we waited till we had strong feelings, apart from lust, for each other. When we finally did, OMFG HE WAS TERRIBLE. I seriously considered how to handle the situation as I didn’t want to leave him but I didn’t want to always have crappy sex. So I took the time to sit down and talk to him, communicate and work through it. Now, we both feel that sex together is the best either of us has had.

I say this to you, she didn’t love you, the divorce is the best thing for you. If she had of cared, she would have talked with you, not done what she has done.

By  randomnobody0622  |  6

there has to be a reason why shes divorcing you, you must jave forgotten something important. try and think why she would do something like that, i dont believe its becaise of sex