By Anon - 10/06/2012 04:19 - United States
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90 - I'd say we don't know enough to say YDI or FYL. How do we know OP doesn't regularly get in fights, steal, get arrested, etc? There's only so much BS a rational person could put up with. I had a student last year (a seventh grader) who had already accumulated over a year in juvie for several assaults on his mother. He broke her arm twice. I know it isn't likely, but we've certainly seen worse on FML.
90- honestly I don't understand it either. My sisters and I were taken away by child protective services when I was 12. My father tried signing away custody, my mother got us back but didn't leave him. When I turned 14 he kicked me out of the house and disowned me as a daughter and my mother did nothing. I never partied, did drugs, I never caused trouble in school-but he still did it. Today, he tries his hardest to contact me and I'll have nothing to do with him. Sometimes there seems to be no reason :( OP, it's up to you to forgive them. But nobody will blame you if you totally remove them from Your life I'm very sorry they did that. You deserve so much better. Stay strong! It's not your fault.
Lol love how everyone is being dicks to the parents. Maybe they're not fighting because they assume OP will want to choose?? OP is old enough to be getting on FML so s/he probably isn't like 5 and too young to be given that decision. Sorry, but I would have loved to choose where I got to live, not everyone's parents RESPECT them enough to let them make that choice. Maybe you think it sucks OP, but it ruins the family more when they fight about what (or who) goes where.
of course its never the kids fault? sometimes parents do everything for their child. A good upbringing and such, but the kid could me lousy! so its not the parents fault, we don't know both sides, but there has to be a HUGE reason why BOTH parents didn't want OP just saying. :D I love freedom of speech, thought i'd throw that in.
Don't feel bad; it's nothing personal, just business. A child costs a lot of money to raise, so it was in their best business interest to give you to the other one. Unless they get a decent amount of child support from the other; in that case they'd be fighting tooth and nail for you.
Sorry OP. it's their lose not yours! Count it as a blessing that you're not stuck with two people not worthy of being your parent.
Yeah cause its just dumb to correct peoples stupid mistakes why cant their be people who dont judge on grammar Probably because it is literally painful to read that. Anybody who disagrees is lying. That is why we must stop the menace that is idiocy in the grammatical field!
Atleast you dont have to live with those git parents of yours :)
Do you have an aunt of uncle you can live with? Maybe even friends? You'll find someone to take care of you.
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Parents these days, finally standing up to their children! We don't know the whole situation but I bet your no angel either for your parents not to take you in.
That's just I feel, who knows what OP did to get it to that point? Parents don't want to deal with that drama anymore and shouldn't have to! That should be wake up call to OP that he/she needs to get his/her act together, and now he/she knows that mommy and daddy are not playing anymore. Sorry I back the parents, kids these days are "somethin"
132 is that really how you feel? In that case, go fuck yourself. What if you were in OP's position, you fucking son of a bitch? I bet OP was probably an awesome child, but the parents didn't want him because they were drug addicts or some shit like that. OP deserves better than what his parents did to him. No child should have to go through what OP had to.