By failure - 28/10/2013 00:41 - United States - Shreveport

Today, my fiancée of 2 years and mother of my son, who is also pregnant with our second son, commented on how lucky two friends getting married were to have found each other. I said that we're just as lucky. She responded, "No. They actually love each other." FML
I agree, your life sucks 50 607
You deserved it 4 614

Same thing different taste

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The first line of your FML kind of explained why dude.... engaged two years with a second kid on the way? Kind of a bad sign.


Seems like she's only with you because of the kid(s) now.

Because hormones excuse everything, right? "Today, my wife murdered my family while pregnant. FML" FML Commenters: "Dude, it's hormones!!! Chill the **** out!"

I may have killed people when I was hormonal... It excuses a lot.. They really do make you extra super crazy

Shrouds 14

my sister in law got pretty crazy until after the baby was born. now she's sweet all the time instead of short bursts.

Maybe she didn't mean she doesn't love op. Maybe being pregnant she's getting emotional and feels unloved by op. which is not quite so horrible.

Wait what? You fiancé of two years and mother of your son who is pregnant? How did your son get pregnant?

Wow, that's cruel. I hope she was just joking, otherwise this is a true FML.

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Pregnant women tend to think and act a little differently than if they weren't pregnant... It's the hormones at work

Treveyon58 2

I'm honestly sick of that. Hormones don't excuse one's actions. I get they can be out of whack when a girl is pregnant or on her period, but there's a limit to how far that excuse can go.

you have a penis what the **** do you know about being hormonal you inconsiderate prick, but it's OK you can't get pregnant so of course you wouldn't know~

Treveyon58 2

Oh boo hoo. Shut the hell up. Hormones or not that doesn't excuse anyone's actions.

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Calm down there 105. When you've gotten people pregnant, you will obviously have a first-hand look at how a developing infant affects a woman's mind :)

The first line of your FML kind of explained why dude.... engaged two years with a second kid on the way? Kind of a bad sign.

I should add a bit more to that kind of cold comment, get yourself into some serious marriage counseling. For the sake of your children.

clearly she feels like their relationship isn't on her side!!!!

15, how can you be on her side?! If she is tired of the relationship, why is she in it? SMFH

Perhaps she can't raise two kids by herself.

Treveyon58 2

That still doesn't mean she should stay in the relationship with a guy who she doesn't live.

It's not even a question of what SHE should do. Why should OP stay with someone who gives him doubt about the relationship? It's toxic.

JMichael 25

15- I'd get both sides of the story before taking sides. I mean we don't even know why she said it. Just that she said it. For all we know maybe she doesn't feel for OP the way she did when they met. Or she could be a bitch. could be the hormones talking.

15, I dont understand why you are on her side. If she feels that way she shouldn't be engaged and having more kids with OP.

Treveyon58 2

Damn I just notice my mistake earlier. I meant love.

Is it possible she's referring to thinking OP doesn't love her? With the pregancy and being engaged for long and all I could see where her insecurities might come from. She might've hoped she'd be married by now, and thinking that because it took so long for OP to commit, he must only be doing it because he feels pressured to with the children (?)

bobo_the_bear 5

Stop using logic #80. There is no place for that in FML.

there isnt two sides to this story. . if she doesnt love him she shouldnt be with him at all. more to that.. she shouldnt have had gotten pregnant again.

#87, you're compleletely right, I apologize. SHES A BITCH!

because this guy promised to marry her 2 whole years ago! It seems like she wants him to own up to his promise

lassielibby 9

more importantly WHY ARE YOU MAKING BABIES????

Because she's pregnant with their 2nd child, obviously she is trying to make it work

ryanmanning 3

They live in Louisiana. They probably live in a trailer home

Treveyon58 2

Yeah because anyone in Louisiana lives in a trailer.

52- great bait mate, I give ya an 8/8.

52, Clearly you've never heard of a little town known as "New Orleans."

57 is right, they all don't live in trailers, most live in shanties. Okies live in trailers. I'm kidding. But trailers are built just as well, if not better, than stick built anymore.

TheDrifter 23

68, head out of the French quarter, there's plenty of trailer folk in New Orleans. It's just one neighborhood of glitz and glam surrounded by slums.

Laurenlou 24

52- There are plenty of well built and well furnished homes in Lousisana. Someone has to own those huge plantation homes with 50 arces around it as well. I really hope you don't actually believe that everyone in Louisiana lives in trailer homes.

buttcramp 21

more like big ass plantation home! those things are worth a fortune. how have you not been educated?

Tough love. Hopefully you guys can talk about what might be wrong with your relationship.

Maybe you guys shouldn't get married quite yet. Sorry OP. I hope she didn't mean it. For the sake of you and your children.

dmklake 14

Sorry OP. Maybe it is the pregnancy talking.

nnnope 26

sounds like you guys need to have a serious talk :/ I really hope things work out for you OP

Ouch OP, Maybe some marriage counseling could be in order? And why would she marry you if she didn't love you? Good luck working things out (: