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It doesn't have to be safe you can trust your partner. OP was obviously in an exclusive relationship and only got the STD from the dickhead bf not honoring that. So it's more like "find better partners" than "safe sex." I love my gf and she loves me, and neither of us would cheat in a million years, so there's no reason to keep it "safe" beyond not getting her preggers.
Actually HPV, the human papillomavirus, is a virus that infects the skin or mucous membranes, causing warts. It's a similar virus to the one that causes warts on the hands. You can have HPV without signs of infection, or you may get genital warts. Either way HPV can lead to cervical cancer. But next time you want to call someone an idiot, make sure you have your facts or you'll be the bigger idiot.
HPV is both actually. There are many different types/strains of HPV. Genital Warts is caused by one of the HPV strains. HPV also causes abnormal pap smears and sometimes pre-cancerous cells changes but it doesn't always cause cancer. Sometimes it clears up on it's own.
53 - Even if I WAS sexually attracted to someone else, I would still never agree to have sex with this person, even if I wasn't in a relationship. This is simply because I don't have casual sex nor could I be attracted to someone that did. Before I get flamed for that statement, it is just my personal conviction, I am not religious, I just don't believe in having sex w/o love. I think he meant me
So much of this whole thread is all types of wrong and stupid xD Also I believe when he, ^ up there, said that he wouldn't find someone who has casual sex attractive I think he means that he doesn't think easy is hot... the fact I had to explain this is ridiculous...
What's so difficult to understand. I prefer women that don't just give away their bodies in an attempt to gain someones affection, or those that do it with anyone purely because it's fun. I did say it was my personal conviction, what does it matter to you? I'd take being a "totally pussy" over being like most men any day. 93 I haven't spewed any STD facts or anything else that could have been copy-pasted. 97 I expect nothing less from the Internet.
phuster, I admire your convictions (and the guy who called you a pussy has no idea what it means to be a real man). however I think the problem most people had with your original comment is the extreme naïveté it takes to say "you and your gf would never cheat In a million years". you can only speak for yourself. sadly ANYTHING is possible, and while I believe that you two love each other deeply and I sincerely hope you can both hold true to your convictions, people are human and can make mistakes...even horrible ones. and for everyone spreading ignorance about STD's and HPV, please don't act like you know what you're talking about if you don't. yes, hpv is the most common and that is because most of the population are asymptomatic carriers (most guys carry it on their dicks and don't know it) and there are several strains that can cause genital warts (usually in women) and predispose to cervical cancer.
It's not absurd at all. Hopefully the sexual repression comment was somewhat sarcastic, cause that's not how it is at all. Sex is fun, there's no shame in it, I just believe that you should only do it with those you love. I believe that when you have sex whenever you get the chance it only depreciates the value of it. Im not forcing my opinions onto you, I'm not saying that they're far superior to anything else, and I don't think lesser of those that don't share my beliefs. That's pretty much all I'm saying; you're the idiot for not catching onto that yet. So if you knew that girl was the village bicycle, you'd still want to be with her? I don't believe it to be naive, I know several people that have been the cheater or cheatee, and I knew the circumstances of their relationships that made the cheating occur. I am extremely confident in my statement despite what you may think.
Your arguments are so flawed. I'm not attracted to one specific character attribute so therefore all of these people are "below me," what type of person thinks like that? I'm not attracted to them, THAT'S IT, stop turning me into some type of high and mighty person; I am not putting myself up on a pedestal. So intelligent people can't be sluts?
Everyone has something that would turn them off to someone. Would you be attracted to someone that was everything you're looking for but is also a complete idiot? You're an intelligent person, do you think you could live with someone like that? They all have similar thoughts about sex...which is what I find unattractive about them. So now I can't use the word "slut" to describe someone like that, village bicycle isn't exactly a technical term, then again neither is slut. To be PC; an extremely promiscuous person. As I've been saying the whole time; I have no animosity towards people that choose to be that way, they just aren't what I'm looking for in a woman.
From the way I read this, it seems that Phustercluck, more than anything else, wishes to avoid conflict with a potential love. A huge difference in opinion regarding something related to the relationship will cause conflict. Conflict is unpleasant, and a turn off. Therefore, the cause of the conflict (differences in opinions about sex) is a turn off. See how that works? Clearly, I'm not PhusterCluck, so I could be getting this entire thing wrong, but it makes sense to me.
There are two main types of HPV, each type with hundreds of strain. One type causes CERVICAL cancer (not uteral cancer), and the other causes genital warts. Get your facts straight. My ex got it from some slut he slept with prior to our relationship, and even though we used condoms every time I still got it. Cervical cancer screenings twice a year...
Whether he told her or not, he still cheated on her which makes him a cheating asshole. He deserve's the STD that he got and I hope he suffers for giving it to the OP. It doesn't even matter if he knew that he had an STD or not. He still had sex with the OP when he was cheating.