By Aspireworks - United States
Today, my fiancé's mother came up to me and told me she loves that I stuck with my soon-to-be husband despite his history and condition. I have no idea what she's talking about, and she refuses to tell me. FML
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  Laurenluvz  |  11

Comment moderated for rule-breaking.. Show it anyway

  Abantiquo  |  7

So young, 32. Life is very long. With bills, mortgages, GFCs, kids etc, that cute lovey-dovey phase usually mellows...sometimes sours might be more accurate. You don't want to marry yourself off to someone with a serious mood/ psychiatric disorder, gambling problem, compulsive lying etc without the chance to research and choose knowingly - or not. People usually discover worse things about their lover over the long haul. Pray it's only chewing his toe-nails.

  RedPillSucks  |  31

Welcome to the family we've got fun and games
We play tricks all the time, we'll fuck with your mind with ease
We know all your husbands secrets
If you fuck him, you'll get a disease

  xx000o  |  27

I The salad days last a short time after the I dos. Whether mom is fucking with your mind, or there have been prior issues, now is the time to find out so you don't get sucked in.

By  conholio33  |  28

Sounds like a trap..... Better find out what that thing before you get married

  geko911  |  22

I get the feeling you're the paranoid type. Sure eventually it would be good if OP knew what said future mother-in-law meant by that but it shouldn't become an obsession either. I personally suspect the future mother-in-law wanted to create tension to break up the couple and seeing how OP posted this here, I would think it worked like a charm.

  hama806  |  19

38-I think marrying someone without uncovering all mysteries is foolish. Holy shit, this is probably why divorce happens as much as it does.

  5t3ff1k4h  |  44

It's foolish, however there are ways it could work without.

Everyone has skeletons in their closet. Even you, I suspect. Usually they're pretty insignificant by the time marriage rolls around, like a threesome in high school or you once kissed someone of the same gender on a dare. The big stuff, like personality and current lifestyle are usually what matters and those are evident long before a wedding. So why dig up past issues that don't apply anymore? If you find out after the wedding, so? You get along now. You care for each other. That should be all that matters.

  hama806  |  19

65-Actually yes I was married. But I wouldn't have been had I known what I found out after I got married. The reason I gave this advice. Thus, eyes wide open...