By me - 18/05/2011 04:13
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bros b4 hoes but in that case that wouldve been a huge dick move
well u gotta think they sound young and besides keyword in this story ......."Boyfriend" it should be husband u totally deserve it u shouldn't have had sex with him until marriage and if u where going to do it anyways u should have been either on the pill or injections and used condoms ur fault for not marrying him and then Gavin a kid
I don't really understand people who say that getting married first is the best option if you have kids... marriage really doesn't mean much these days, especially in a world where divorces are becoming just as common as break ups. it's not her fault for not getting married to him first. it seems like she made a good decision not marrying him, seeing as what a douchebag he is.plus, break ups don't cost as much as divorces
104- There are so many things I disagree with in your comment I don't know where to start. Boyfriend of 4 years. They could have just had a baby. OP could be 30 years old for all you know. Why should they get married if they (thought they) were in a stable, committed relationship? Yes, if OP's ex was always this immature they should have waited before having a baby, but sex before marriage is their decision, and a path most people take now.
Kids are never a good reason for staying together. The children are better off in a single parent home than in a hostile one. OP will be better off on her own than with a wank who puts his mates first. If it was a bull shit excuse then she's still better off...who wants to be with a pussy who can't man up and tell the truth??? All the child would learn from this dick is that women deserve to be treated like dirt. Good riddance I say OP!!
You can't throw all guys into that category, and if every guy were like lots of girls out there who are planning a wedding after the second date, the divorce rate would be even higher than it already is. That said, OP's boyfriend should either be ready to commit or have gotten out of the relationship a long time ago. She may have used their kid together to guilt him into staying with her, which I believe would make her deserve it.