By Disappointed - 30/05/2015 20:05 - United States - Lexington
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Wow.. You need to talk to them OP, if it's been 5 years then I'm assuming this relationship is serious. Can't let yourself be treated like that your whole life.
Treated like you're a sex toy? Seriously.. Yes I'm aware we don't know what effort she put into it but that isn't included in the FML, focus on what we do know ffs. Effort doesn't equal a quicky. If he's at work all day at least actually say 'happy anniversary' and discuss what they're to to celebrate when they're together later that day or another time. Christ you people defend anything
(we also dont know he didnt say happy aniversary and the likes of so, the fml only mentions what he "got her", not what he SAID to her, so if you wanna focus only what the fml states then that cant be assumed....). im not really defending the guy himself, if i were him i would have done something special. he seems like he doesnt care about her. that part im not arguing. its just the way your comment came off, when we dont really know if she got him anything or not (notice your downvotes, im partially speaking for other people...) and sounded like the man is expected to do everything. that may not be what you mean, but fml commenters dont always give ghe benifit of the doubt. sorry
Clearly I do not expect one person to do everything in an occasion that celebrates the both of them. I made a comment on the information given? I am saying it was not thoughtful to celebrate the day with a quickie, no one considers that loving; after all it's a day to celebrate their love. And in regards to the sex toy comment, considering this is an FML then it's safe to say OP is not happy with being involved in the event, otherwise they wouldn't complain. So yes, we can assume OP felt used rather than loved. Perhaps you have a problem with the word used, either way the action was more preferred by them than OP. So no I do not expect the man to do everything, I expect him to treat her with decency.