Today, my best friend said we couldn't be friends anymore because I'm too depressed or too happy all the time. After explaining for half an hour what bipolar depression was and how I have it he just said, "Bullshit!" FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Same thing different taste
Today, I opened up to my best friend about my depression. Her response: "If you're so depressed, why don't you just kill yourself?" FML
Today, a therapist told me that I was too depressed to attend his depression group meetings. FML
Today, my boyfriend called and asked me why I love him. I told him because he's always there for me and continues to put up with my bipolar disorder. He promptly said "not anymore" and hung up. FML
Unsustainable
Today, I started to hate being the "mentally stable friend" because my friends will be talking about mental health and I've got to be the 'all smiles and positive' person who gives them hope in life, but the second I falter I can see everyone shift and I'm just not. Allowed. To. FML
Sob story
Today, I was hanging out with my best friend. Depressed, I started telling her about my terrible week. A woman came over and asked me to not be so "whiny and negative" in front of her children. FML
Support system
Today, I tried to tell my dad that I was really struggling with my mental health and didn't think I could stay alive much longer. He laughed. This comes after telling my "best friend" last week and having to wait three days for a reply. FML
Today, my best friend got drunk and told me he's only friends with me because no one else will be friends with him. He then went on to tell me that he wasn't actually that drunk. FML
Hang in there, man
Today, my best friend of five years left cause I “followed them” and that made me depressed, then I couldn’t go outside or to class anymore cause I was too depressed, then my girlfriend, whom I was going to marry, left me because, you guessed it, I was too depressed. Now I’m in a mental hospital for trying to kill myself. FML
Today, I admitted to my boyfriend of three years that I have been suffering from depression for a while now. He took it as a good time to dump me. FML
All in all, you're just a…
Today, after spending 4 years without dating after an abusive relationship, and going out with who I thought was a decent guy for 6 months, I told him I have bipolar disorder and take medication for it. He responded by dumping me saying he can’t date someone who’s “crazy.” Back to putting my wall up I go. FML
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askullnamedbilly 33
Yeah, you don't need that guy in your life. Even if you did make up after that conversation, someone who thinks a mood disorder is 'bullshit' will never give you the support you deserve and need.
DaDezza244 31
The amount of ignorance your "best" friend possess is astonishing. You deserve better friends who understand your mental illness.
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barksdalescott 11
Um? There's no such thing as bipolar depression. It's called bipolar disorder. Depression is one aspect of it, but there is no disease called bipolar depression. Jfc
fuckpotato 12
In the past, bipolar depression was lumped in with regular depression, but a growing body of research suggests that there are significant differences between the two, especially when it comes to recommended treatments. Most people with bipolar depression are not helped by antidepressants. In fact, there is a risk that antidepressants can make bipolar disorder worse—triggering mania or hypomania, causing rapid cycling between mood states, or interfering with other mood stabilizing drugs. Despite many similarities, certain symptoms are more common in bipolar depression than in regular depression. For example, bipolar depression is more likely to involve irritability, guilt, unpredictable mood swings, and feelings of restlessness. People with bipolar depression also tend to move and speak slowly, sleep a lot, and gain weight. In addition, they are more likely to develop psychotic depression—a condition in which they’ve lost contact with reality—and to experience major disability in work and social functioning.
fuckpotato 12
All that took was 2 seconds of some Google research. Maybe you should try it before you make yourself look like a ******* douche again.
corky1992 33
Sounds like you're better off without a person like that in your life.
EliGolsdworthy 7
You need and a deserve a better best friend O.P
jarshablarg 8
Nat is this you cuz if it is didn't say bullshit I said I understand and won't judge you
NostalgiaFreak9 43
If he's that ******* stupid, then you're better off without him.
pineapplejam69 1
Just smoke weed. Kick that bipolar shit's ass
lolhailsatan 23
there's always that one guy with no actual knowledge of mental health who insists on telling you that smoking pot will cure your mental illness lol
Rkikkas9713 25
Marijuana actually does benefit people with mental illnesses. It helps with Anorexia, Insomnia, and all forms of depression, including Manic Depression (Bipolar Disorder), among other things. It calms your mental state and makes you feel much more positive.
domolovesyoshi 33
Yeah but it doesn't cure the other more volatile mental illnesses
tomvertigo 17
Not always true #30. I tried out to ywar my manic depression and anxiety and all that I got out of it was slightly less anxiety and a much more intense emotional up and down.
Brandi_Faith 34
Actually smoking pot has been known to bring out latent personality disorders (such as schizophrenia) in people that otherwise may have stayed latent. It also causes people with mental disorders and anxiety to often feel more anxious and paranoid causing them to do things they normally wouldn't do (sometimes dangerous things). Marijuana can cause also cause temporary psychosis while people are high in people without mental health issues so it's safe to say that it could only add to a person's mental issues. Despite what people think, weed causes impairment of your mental faculties and in people who are already depressed, or paranoid, or experiences manic episodes (as that of someone with bipolar disorder) this can only be exasperated. People with mental health issues should stay away from weed. Feel free to downvote me if you disagree, but this has all been medically researched and proven.
TheOneMica 6
@42 The first half is true and proven, however, it is NOT safe to say it "could only add to a person's mental health issues." Nor can it "only be exasperated." They have yet to find a definitive link - positive or negative - between mental health and marijuana except for it can help bring out latent schizophrenia. In fact, most studies show that there's no negative link with the actual drug usage and mental health. The only thing that they've noted is, negative consequences were positively correlated with negative well being. However, there's currently no direct link with marijuana usage = negative well being, only negative consequences from drug use = negative well being. All I'm saying is, it's not clear enough to say "it helps!" or "it only hurts!" Right now, honestly the research is pointing towards "it's a case by case basis." Which is how all mental health medications are, right now.
aelarol 5
Plus safer if they are zoned and LEAVE YOU ALONE.
dragoongirl90 34
#42, thank you for being an intelligent human being. I suffer from severe anxiety and PTSD and all that fuckshit did was make it way worse. It caused paranoia. I screamed inside my head for an hour. It took my constant, severe physical pain and amplified it; caused me to be unable to focus on anything but the pain. So **** pot and **** stoners who think it's a ******* cure for everything.
pandarae 12
Yeah you are better off with out that person. Trust me as a bipolar 1 as soon as I shed those friendships and relationships my life improve exponentially.
the_real_dvd 21
My older half sister was apparently bi-polar. The amount of abuse I endured from her was incredible. Truly horrific abuse. Then she would blame her condition, and tell me I need to respect her disability. She also refused to try medication because we were supposed to accept her for how she is. I cut her off 7 years ago and have no regrets. I'm not sure what caused this friend to draw away, but I suspect he had his reason. It's easy to judge him without the facts, but I can understand what he may have endured.
aelarol 5
I married one and have worked under four so you have my sympathy.
Ficu 12
That's horrible, using a disorder to completely ignore other peoples feelings. Since she was both aware what she was doing and refused to take medication, or presumably change anything about the way she was treating you, I may have sympathy for her condition but none for her using it as an excuse.
Karau_fml 12
Don't worry, nobody deserves that dumb of a friend.
DrHothead 15
He will find out.Give it some time