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Today, I was hanging out with my best friend. Depressed, I started telling her about my terrible week. A woman came over and asked me to not be so "whiny and negative" in front of her children. FML
Today, I was hanging out with my best friend. Depressed, I started telling her about my terrible week. A woman came over and asked me to not be so "whiny and negative" in front of her children. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, after my therapist told me I should open up to my friends more, I sent a message to a pen-pal and told her that I had asked for and found help with my postpartum troubles. She replied that I'm a bad friend for "always burdening her with my problems." FML
Today, my wife told me to stop talking about my depression, in case the neighbours hear and think she’s a bad wife for not being able to keep me happy. FML
Today, I told my friend over the phone that I had to go drop the kids off at the pool. She told me that she didn't need to know about my bathroom habits and hung up on me. I really had to take my children to the local swimming pool for swim lessons. FML
Today, my friend needed to talk out bad feelings. Then she urged me to open up as well. I hate doing it, but it only seemed fair, so I confessed my deep insecurities. Not only did she agree with everything, but she also helpfully added that I'm boring, have no life, and all my dreams are unattainable. FML
Today, at work, I was told I was a failure. Feeling like crap, I went to my best friend to see if he could make me laugh. He told me that he felt obligated to hang out with me, so he thought that we shouldn't anymore. FML
Today, I finally shared some of my insecurities and difficulties I’m experiencing with a close friend. The response was great, they listened, and gave advice. Later I met another friend, who said that they’re here for me. Everyone was just trying to help, but now almost everyone I know knows. I feel worse than before. FML
Today, I opened up to my best friend about my depression. Her response: "If you're so depressed, why don't you just kill yourself?" FML
Today, I was sitting with a group of people at lunch. I was having a bad day, so I began venting to them. Eventually, they got tired of it and banned me from the table, because my "depressing mindset" reminds them of their trauma. FML
Today, I was telling my best friend that I was feeling unattractive, and that I never get asked out. As she was trying to make me feel better, we were interrupted by a stranger trying to hit on her. FML
Today, I messaged my two best friends for emotional support. I don't normally do this, as I feel like I'm bothering people, but I was having a breakdown. One never replied; the other said, "Everyone is having a hard time" then talked about her own problems. FML
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Voij 16
Not sure whether depressing stuff should be discussed in public, but then again you probably have/had bigger worries at that time. Good thing you're talking about it to somebody, though. It's the first step on the way to getting over the depression.
sofitina 20
Whether or not you were being Bitch, whiny, annoying, etc. that's still not something you say to someone. People these days are rude. Couldn't she have moved her child away and such? Sigh, people.
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Daiyuki 5
Comment moderated for rule-breaking.
Don't bitch and moan in random public places I guess; I'm sure the children were those who were the least concerned with it though.
KayleeT 9
It was a private conversation. What right did she have to tell her that she couldn't vent to her friend?
Voij 16
The right of passage! No wait, that's not right... the rite of passage? Writing of passage? Maybe she battled to acquire the right to partake in festivities? (Anybody get this reference? >_<) Oh, I give up.
Ameel_fml 19
Is that some sort of public rule I'm not aware of? Shit, I'd better not speak in public then. A lot of my conversations are negative or "whiny". That's part of the fun of having friends...you can bitch to them about your shitty days, and they can bitch to you about their's.
fishstick557 14
Should've told her "could you not be such a bitch in front of me when you don't even know my situation?"
BellaBelle_fml 23
I do think that the mother could have simply moved her children to a distance where they wouldn't be able to hear what was being said without having to have any sort of a confrontation. However, if moving to another location wasn't possible for some reason, and if the OP was using curse words or was talking about an adult topic loud enough for the mother's children to clearly over hear what was being said, I could totally understand why the mother would ask her to refrain from doing so. I understand that it was a private conversation that did not involve anyone else but her friend. I can also understand a mother not wanting her children to over hear or pick up on certain negative things, cursing, or some adult content. But we don't know what her conversation entailed, wether it was completely harmless or not.
whY402Jay 12
You're an asshole.
Carmstro 13
19, although OP could have been having a quiet and private conversation, there IS the chance that OP was being loud and obnoxious. After all, the woman DID hear everything OP was saying. Then again the woman might have just been nosy. Either way I don't agree with what the woman did unless OP was ridiculous but everyone here is making assumptions.
Voij 16
Not sure whether depressing stuff should be discussed in public, but then again you probably have/had bigger worries at that time. Good thing you're talking about it to somebody, though. It's the first step on the way to getting over the depression.
docscientist 10
Considering a large portion of Americans share depressed or highly stressed states, open, public discourse could be socially positive.
alycion 39
I am very open about me depression/bipolar, as it not only helped me accept it, it has also helped others I know realize help is available. But there is a time and a place for taking about this. If you are talking in public about it, try to do so in a way that won't freak people out. Not everyone knows how to handle it. I hope things start looking up for you op.
MarisaCB 16
Just a bad week, really. Nothing too personal, but I was on the verge of tears.
alycion 39
Too many are easily offended and over sensitive. They don't know how not to over hear something and complain. I thinks it's the main reason I've learned to talk lowly if I need to talk about negative stuff in public. And for an Italian, that's tough ;)
BellaBelle_fml 23
I'm sorry that you are going through a tough patch in your life, OP. I hope things will start looking brighter for you soon. Keep your chin up!
sniper4613 13
Op tell her not to be a bitch in front of her children
poodle_juice 17
In the words of FPS Russia.. "Don't be beetch."
elgordogrande1 11
No
gc327072 31
And as always, have a nice day…
xKeroseneHearts 9
She doesn't want your "Emo" to rub off on her children. Lol some people
lilhellian 27
This curiously reminds of the "Bacterial Contamination" youtube vid by Hatsune Miku.. .-.
HannahLouise96 13
^ ...... What?
oj101 33
Can anyone else see the irony? #4's pic is kind of emo
emag_eht 18
Did you see her profile description too? I'm almost crying.
elgordogrande1 11
I'm sorry, but your use of the word "emo" is completely wrong here, you ******* scenester. Emo is not a fashion statement. Emo is not a way to describe someone. A person that cuts their wrists and has long "emo" hair is a depressed scenester. Emo is, however, a genre of music. Looking at your musical tastes, you probably consider Fall Out Boy and My Chemical Romance to be emo. they're not. They're just mediocre pop-punk bands that wear more makeup than the rest. Emo is defined as an off shoot of hardcore punk. The word "emo" is short for "emotive hardcore" or "emotional hardcore" because it blended emotional lyrics that weren't just about anger with hardcore riffs and beats. Some REAL emo bands are Rites of Spring (arguably the first true emo band), At the Drive In, and Sunny Day Real Estate. One could make a strong argument that La Dispute, Piano's Become the Teeth, and Touche Amore are all modern day emo bands for combining passionate and heartfelt emotional lyrics with post-hardcore. Sorry for the rant, but this person needed to be educated on the subject. On a side note, does #4 realize that Dahvie Vanity of BOTDF has been accused of statutory rape numerous times (I can't remember if he was charged)? Not as bad as that guy from Lost Prophets, but still... TL;DR: Emo is a subgenre of punk that isn't shitty pop-punk, not a way of acting or a way of dressing
gc327072 31
^TL;DR irrelevancy unleashed.
SmosherMe 6
^^emo generally stands for emotional. And BOTDF and PTV and SWS are post-hardcore. Not pop-punk or whatever you said. Emo doesn't necessarily mean music. And scene is a completely different thing. Dahvie Vanity is basically the definition of scene. Scene is a style that is similar to the emo style but they are more colourful and more than likely outgoing. Their hair styles are usually spiked in the back and down in the front. Or they are just short in the back and long in the front, also random colours. Emo hair styles are usually down and covering one or both eyes, usually long and black. Scene make up is usually brighter colours while emo is black and dark grey. Now you have been properly informed on scene and emo.
sofitina 20
Whether or not you were being Bitch, whiny, annoying, etc. that's still not something you say to someone. People these days are rude. Couldn't she have moved her child away and such? Sigh, people.
sadistmonkey 19
And besides, a little negativity never hurt any children. Children need to understand that the world isn't all Santa Claus and Easter bunnies.
SS99_fml 20
Although I can understand how that could be annoying for her, if she has room to move, I feel like that'd be a much better alternative
bubbalax9 9
Ignore the bitch. Unless you were being obnoxiously loud, she had no right to be an ass. She could have moved elsewhere...
SWC_Penguin 17
Comment moderated for rule-breaking.
Moms are professional "whine-listeners." So I'm gonna say you deserved it if you managed to whine more than HER threshold.
Lichinamo 33
Moms are only "whine-listeners" when it comes to THEIR kids. They have no tolerance for anyone else.
HumanWiki 8
I'd tell her to **** off and mind her business.
HannahLouise96 13
Comment moderated for rule-breaking.
Yeah. Great language to use in front of children.
HeartOfLead 24
Why is this response being downvoted, unless everyone finds okay to swear around children?
ohSNAPyall 27
Because they're saying the mom deserved the language.
KrazyKatz3 26
I'm sorry. I thought people were allowed to say whatever they wanted in a public place... If the mother brings her children outside they are going to hear bad words. Surely you can just tell your kids that's not a nice word don't say it.
noelasis94 18
Should have told her the world ain't all sunshine and rainbows so these kids need to learn that now
bestofbritish93 8
That's pretty much exactly what I said too! Stupid cow (not OP the person who had the issue with them)