True..Sometimes it's just better to flat out hear it than to keep wondering

At the very least, the friend didn't wait until you were finished.

I agree. I'd rather find out the way you did than to waste more time trying to express my feelings. It was really harsh, but at least you weren't face to face, and if you both are mature enough you can put this behind you and go on like nothing happened. Plus you can avoid him til you get over it.

Agreed with 77. It's: "Today, I just rejected. I'm a girl. FML." Rejection sucks, I agree, but it's part of life. For guys especially as the social dynamic requires guys to usually make the first move. At least you know early on, so you can ditch him, and move on.

Nor are you.

How? I was meaning that he could have said it nicer

I bet he would

Love futarama

He's a dick because he doesn't like her? Hmm... interesting thought process.

38 ftw

4 - What you wrote and what I read were two different beasts all together. I wasted my thumb on you, bareback and all.

So apparently, if you don't like someone now your a dick..? Interesting.

You always call guys up to find that you're best friend is dating them?

Ah, I'm sorry, the guy's best friend.

I was about to comment how you didn't read it right but then you realised that yourself

Why do people always say "They're not worth your time. You could do better!" How do you know they can do better? Maybe OP is a really shitty person, maybe not. You shouldn't speak in absolutes about something you don't know or understand.

It was the friend of the crush that was being a jerk about it, not the crush. the crush could have been a sweet guy but we don't know.

Yeah but I would rather Him tell me himself and not through text

Texting is a form of communication like everything else. Sure it takes a little more balls to tell you face to face or over the phone, but he's still communicating with you.

Ya mee too honestly. It might hurt for a while but I think it'd be a lot easier to get over then if he just never told me to my face and was just leading me on

What relationship? She was -explaining- to some guy how she liked him, doesn't sound like there was a relationship to me...

oh u are right! my fault! but its still be true ;)

No, it's not true lol they're not in a relationship.

I think she means it's still true, like in general

You're a dumbass, there are signs OP

You're the dumbass. You can't always see the signs. And sometimes, you don't want to. Im guessing that with your personality, you notice the signs when people run away from you.

It was his best friend not OPs

He means that ops crush's friend likes op and txted her saying her crush doesn't like her so he could go out with her...... Ik pretty confusing

Yeah 'cus it's much more fun being shot down face to face

There are alot of reasons why telling it face to face is better. And one of them is that , you can make an impression and deliver feelings that u cant do with just a vocal conversation.

Also, you could pick up on the guys reaction, and stop rambling if you notice he's not interested. Also, you can make sure he actually has time to listen to your shit, isn't busy, and is alone, for some privacy.