By anonymous - 23/12/2014 11:28 - Austria - Vienna
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Here's an idea: Don't stare at people at all maybe? It's kinda creepy
But when you see a breathe taking gorgeous guy. You just have too. I still remember what this stranger's smile looked like, passing by a few years ago. I just had to stare at him wide eyed. Embarrassingly with my mouth hanging open. Lol totally worth it. Led to a funny conversation after.
Exactly. I don't understand this kind of double standard. Every time I've looked at a girl for longer than two seconds I've been told off for being creepy and staring. So if a guy stares at a girl because he finds her attractive it's creepy, but if a girl stares at a guy because he's attractive then it's totally acceptable? That's fair.
How about no one stares at anyone??? It's creepy no matter who is doing it to who, and I really don't understand why people are getting thumbed down for calling it what it is. Also, "feminazis"? Really? Comparing a (sometimes misguided) movement for equal rights to the people who committed mass genocide is pretty nasty.
Leave it society to judge and assume what people are looking at.
I am a quadriplegic and every time I go outside people avoid and stare at me. I can understand that children are curious, but when adults stare it is just plain rude. However, I would never yell at someone. If someone thought that I was cute I would LOVE it if they would talk to me instead of thinking about it!
I feel as though "society" is more of a collection of someone's close minded, sick views on how we should live out our lives... Who gets to decide how you live? Sounds wrong to me. Lol, in short stare if you want, say hi if you want. But don't feel bad that someone yelled at you, because of what they assumed.