By emily - 15/07/2011 22:21 - United States
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What the fuck? The guy was "nice" to break up with a person that way? What would've been "nice" would've been for him to man- up and meet OP at a place and break-up with them face-to-face. It wasn't a month or two relationship, it was two (wasted) years of the OP's life and he couldn't even act like a man to say it to their face. Sorry OP, that fucking sucks.
It's a waste in my opinion if ultimately the guy can't at least have the guts to say something to the persons face. It was two years of their life, not two months, and regardless, any person deserves more respect than that. I'd call it a waste, but I respect your views.
44 - You're not going to have much excitement in life with that attitude. Not everything is a waste; that relationship could have taught her some valuable lessons despite it eventually ending. I like to view relationships as a learning experience, and if they work out or end in marriage (or something of the same personal value), it's a bonus.