By Anonymous - 29/12/2014 02:49 - United States - Wilmington
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Calling someone "daddy" in bed isn't all that weird. I mean, it's a fetish thing, and a pretty tame one at that if you've ever looked into different fetishes. It ties into the dominant/submissive fetish. Some doms like to be called daddy, and might refer to their subs with pet names as well (slut, baby, fucktoy etc) Different strokes for different folks :)
Thats not sexy talk, thats icky! It's also not some dom/sub thing, its just icky! I was abused as a child, the idea that anyone gets their rocks off from someone calling them daddy while having sex is so upsetting. I dont want my child calling out daddy while havimg sex and I would send my husband packing if he started some sick daddy/child sex fettish. I know I sound close minded and judgmental but really I am not, but this is a hard line for me and it makes me sick.
This is the part where you say something like "I'm your daddy!", give her a tap on the posterior, and continue on your way. There is not much chance she was actually bothered by your question, just a bit flustered, and maybe confused by the question if she is new to the dirty talk scene.
I never have a girl call me daddy it's just weird and a turn off like I'm not trying to role play incest haha
Baby sounds weird. I prefer babe, I think it's cute. However calling your boyfriend / husband babe; is a LOT different them calling them daddy. Who wants to think of their father during sex? Ahhhh yuck. I still remember when I was 15 and my dad said, "If you ever have sex. Make sure to picture my face like this!" *pulls a horrified double chin face*
You are a male figure in my life. You ride my ass all the time. See? It's not that hard if you try. But seriously you can hardly say that saying "baby" is less creepy than "daddy". In spanish calling your wife daughter or mom is not weird. Your mom can also call you daddy. Its not weird if you don't make it weird.