We don't know that she didn't or isn't planning on saying anything to her mom. You only have a certain amount of space so it's not like the OP can tell the entire story and what she did after in full detail.

Retard. There's nothing wrong with being a woman. Women also can't hide their boobs unless they have some kind of special clothing or lot of layers. Or they're naturally flat.

no-one wants to be sexually harrassed >:|

While the guy obviously shouldn't have actually said something like that out loud—and while age factor is definitely present—#81 does have a point. I sometimes feel sexually harassed when a girl shows more skin than I wanted to see. Wearing revealing clothing is already a come-on. To a guy, it feels like being touched, whether it's welcome or not. So while this dude is definitely a perv, blaming it all on him could be a lot like the kid who says, "Well, Mom, it all started when he hit me back."

#84 is 100% correct. And no, women can hide their boobs. And it takes only one article of clothing. I hate to break it to you, but something as simple as a T-shirt hides your boobs. But, of course, I'm already wrong, simply because I'm a 'typical man', as Moontrance so eloquently puts it. So who really cares if OP was wearing revealing clothing, let's just kill all men and be done with it! Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay for rational, unbiased thought!

Only thing about that is that t-shirts may cover the visible skin of a girls boobs, but if they're there, a t-shirt isn't hiding anything. And many girls STILL get comments like that in t-shirts cause a t-shirt can just emphasize the size. From experience.

@ 81, 84 and 85: What the ****? Were you there? How do you know what the OP was wearing? She could have been completely covered, for all you know. If it was something she felt comfortable wearing in front of her Mum's boyfriend, my guess is that it was quite modest. Not that that's relevant, anyway. No piece of clothing could warrant such a disgusting comment from a stepfather figure. I find it extremely offensive and ignorant that you believe she was "probably" wearing something revealing, then dismiss his behaviour as being justified and condoned. You're "probably" one of those despicable people who blame rape victims. Go jerk off to Nick Eriksen.

Buddy, you have issues, and it's not a woman's fault that your mom touched you, or whatever caused you to be a screwed up prude. Wow. Might I recommend a move to Riyadh? You'd feel much more comfortable there.

Ive been sexually harassed and 98% of people said it was probably my fault for wearing something revealing. It happened when I was wearing something baggy that covered everything. And I don't dress skanky ever, and I don't try and emphasize my body. Maybe the OP told people but they had that reaction, or didn't believe her. This happened at work when I was a minor too, but age has no factor. You should NOT be treated like this for ANY reason.

In response to all you above me: The way I look at it is the OP quite possibly could have been wearing her pyjamas still (she was eating breakfast), so they could have been somewhat revealing (it's the summer and it gets hot at night). And to say that just putting one piece of clothing over your boobs hides them: it doesn't. Believe me. I won't give the exact size, but let's just say I have rather large boobs (above a C cup), and I'm thin (which makes them look bigger), so I have to put on MOUNTAINS of clothes to even remotely hide them. Pretty much the only thing that makes me look somewhat flat is my winter jacket. I don't try to make guys look at my boobs (I don't wear super baggy clothes, as I have small hips, and don't want them to look even smaller) and I only show cleavage when I dress up for something formal; and even then it's not THAT much. Guys STILL look at my chest though, and there's nothing I can do to stop them except walk away (I do have guy friends who don't stare at my chest; I'm not a feminist "**** guys, they're all pigs", kind of person, I'm just saying SOME guys).

amen!!!

@#69: Um, it was sarcasm. Or, to quote the immortal Bill Hicks, 'Sarcasm. Come on in!"

Yo douchebag! Be realistic.