Ok, in other words, you were acting like a grown-up, not a drama queen, in front of your kid. Get over the jealously, focus on what's good for your kid. I say, you are ok.

No sympathy for you. Grow a pair! Walk in there and say " Hey! I came here to visit MY daughter, not wash your dirty dishes. So get your stinking hands off of her and you go wash your own dirty dishes." What are going to do if you get custody of her and she gets a boyfriend and he starts abusing her? You just going to sit idly by and post an FML? No! You're going to go in there and beat the shit out of that little boy for laying a hand on your daughter. Your going to kick him out of the house and promise to kill him if he ever comes near your daughter again.

major feels man :(

If you're going to become the maid, screw her new man. I will probably regret making this comment.

At least your ex wife's boyfriend seems to give your daughter attention. sounds like a plus.

dumb ass?

You did the right thing, at least you care enough about your daughter to make sure she eats off clean plates,,,,your ex-wife must be a real shit! It takes a real man to have the kind of self-control you do!

Grow some balls..

He needs to grow a pair. He sounds like every Jason Bateman movie character.

Umm why would you be at get apartment doing her dishes? What kind of pussy are you?