By Anonymous - 15/09/2009 18:18 - United States
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Do what Jordan had Dr. Cox do on that one episode of Scrubs. Reverse vasectomy!
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Does anyone not see what he did here? Maybe she doesn't put out as much as he would like. Maybe he doesnt like using condoms and she isn't on the pill or anything. Or maybe its all of the above. He gets the procedure done, doesn't tell her about it and he's getting laid until she's pregnant.
And this makes him less of an asshole, how? You must be a man if you're siding with him. "He's getting laid till she gets pregnant" SMH. They've made a conscious decision to have a child, meaning they both agreed to stop using any kind of protection. He's a jerk and so are you for siding with him.
Really? This has got to be one of the dumbest things I've ever heard/read. They don't chop off your balls when you get a vasectomy. The "vasa deferentia" of a man is cut and then tied/sealed in a manner such to prevent sperm from being released when a man ejaculates. Aka "shooting blanks". Maybe you should pay attention in health class.
Is he the one who told you? Because if he's not, and if you're the extremely vengeful type, you should get pregnant (sperm bank or other method) and surprise him right back with the happy news.
I feel so bad for you!! I'd go to a sperm bank and create a super baby with someone elses sperm, don't tell your husband, and say he got you preggers.
So why does she have to be the one to sacrifice what she wants in life? If she wants children, she shouldn't be denied that just because he disagrees. This is a conversation that needed to happen BEFORE marriage. Considering the husband clearly wasn't willing to have it at all, he gets the blame. FYL.
Actually, as long as they're still married and doesn't have any previous kids, yes she has to give up on that as long as he won't compromise, and if he's willing to lie to her the odds are he won't. If niether will compromise then they should get a divorce. He gets your hopes up for a few months and cruelly drops them, you make him help take care of a baby for 18 years. Seems like overkill for revenge. Although I do agree this conversation should've come up before marriage. Why someone would want a kid in the first place is beyond me, and why women seem to in general want kids more than men is even further beyond me (since they go through child birth), I'd personally rather get stabbed but different strokes for different (masochistic) folks :P
I don't think anyone realizes that he did this for all the sex involved. That said, I'm really sorry that he did that to you, and I agree with 'loled1337', go to a sperm bank, and make him think it didn't work or that you cheated when you really didn't, and then tell him afterwards. THEN HE'LL KNOW WHAT IT'S LIKE TO BE LIED TO!