By bummed - 04/11/2010 03:16 - United States
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wow you are indeed dating a three time loser , who probably doesn't even pay child support. and if he does, he probably can scarcely afford Ramon noodles, but he's probably working a minimum wage shit job with little opportunity for advancement, in which case you'd be an idiot to be wasting any more of your life with this loser who already created a family with three other women, which you will have to hear about and possibly see for the rest of your life unless he's an even bigger time loser! either way, you'd be a fool too
YDI for dating a guy with two kids from different girls and expecting him to magically change with you Consider yourself lucky it wasn't you who got pregnant
I would leave him because if he still don't know what contraception is after making two girls pregnant, he must be incredibly dumb or he doesn't care at all about his offspring. He is not a serious partner. OP, run. (but still, those two (or three, if the claiming is true) women are also incredibly dumb. Having sex without being protected, great job.)
birth control and condoms fail. I have two friends who are proof of that. shouldn't we try not to judge someone because of their past? yes, he made a few mistakes and has two kids with two women. if op is okay with that then whatever. thats between them and just because the woman is claiming that he's the father, doesnt mean he is. she couldve slept with other guys during that time and she just picked him because he already has two. I need more information before I want to judge either side. get a test done and if he is the father then OP should rethink this thing (if he isnt a good father, if he is a good dad then why not? but OP should probably do the whole wait til marriage thing).
uhm leave him now ! sorry girl, but unless you want to be the 4th baby momma, RUN! and you haven't even been together for 6 months. No big deal. Get out while you can. That man is a scum bag.