By why - 16/03/2015 01:10 - United States - Tucson

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Today, I caught my boyfriend cheating on me. He claimed it wasn't cheating because he's not romantically attracted to her. FML
I agree, your life sucks 38 054
You deserved it 3 363

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Hiimhaileypotter 52

People who cheat always have the dumbest excuses. If you loved someone you wouldn't cheat on them, period. At least end the relationship first. I'm sorry this happened to you, OP. Being cheated on sucks.

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netflixislife 15

Respond by saying that you're no longer romantically attracted to him and find a boyfriend who will treat you right.

condor216 15

More like **** his life. He didn't deserve you anyways, and you can do so much better than him.

Well, I mean, sexual attraction and romantic attraction -are- two entirely different things, and it is possible to have one without the other. That said, your relationship should have been clear enough to him that both sexual and romantic monogamy was the rule. Unless you specifically discuss these things, most people will assume that the two are mutually inclusive and respond accordingly. So while there's some potential for this to be a -huuuuuge- miscommunication and lack of social skills on his part, I highly doubt it.

Looks like he will be getting plenty now from people he's not romantically attracted to

I know it hurts and you probably feel like exacting revenge - but he is clearly a moron. You can and WILL do better.

Rayth 19

Ignorance is truly bliss in this one.

With that sense of logic, I'd call it good riddance.

I'm so sorry! And I'm sorry to say this, but some guys genuinely believe it's not cheating if it's just physical. My boyfriend works with guys that think exactly like that. I think they're all complete douches, but this tells you it's better you know he thinks like that now rather than later, if you ended up married or such. xx