Today, I came home crying and informed my mother that someone had called me a 'fat bitch' today. She held me at arms length, looked me straight in the eyes, and lovingly said, "You can't change who you are." FML
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Wild Nights Out
Last call, bad decisions and 3 a.m. texts you'll regret until noon. Cheers.
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Classic Mom moment
Today, I went to my parents' house. I recently lost about 30 lbs. My mom hugged me and said, "Aww, you're not my chubby baby girl anymore." She then said she wished I were still fat because she missed it. She's the reason I lost the weight; she used to tease and taunt me. Thanks Mom. FML
Low blow
Today, I found myself crying in the bathroom because I started to feel lonely and depressed. My mother came into the bathroom, hearing me cry and gave me an hour long speech about what a beautiful human being I am… And to not forget to lose weight. FML
Today, whilst trying on wedding dresses with my mom, she told me that I looked fat and awful in the dress I liked. When I told her how hurtful she was being, she told me that I should be grateful that she told me what she thought instead of laughing at me behind my back. FML
Today, my friend was complaining about how fat she was. To make her feel better I said, "Psh, you're not fat! In fact we're about the same weight!" She looked at me for a second, then burst into tears sobbing, "I'm fat! I'm fat!" FML
Thanks for the support
Today, after being bodyshamed by my mother for being too fat (I'm a size 14) and how I shouldn't be wearing shorts because it makes me look ugly and motivates people to comment on my body, I texted my boyfriend to tell him about it. His reply was, "Aww. you cutie. You know she's not wrong." FML
Today, my mom told me that she heard me and my best friend in my room grunting and talking about how hard we were. She said she loved me and accepted me no matter what. Thanks mom, but we were working out. FML
Today, my mother looked me dead in the face and said, "I have failed as a parent." FML
Today, feeling very self-conscious about my looks, I told my mom I felt ugly and wished I could be as beautiful as her. She only said, "Yeah, I'm pretty, I wonder what happened to you." FML
Today, my 6-year-old daughter walked into the bathroom where I was grumbling about my weight. Seeing how upset I was, she took my hand and said, "Mom, you're not fat. You just look fat." FML
Wow, thanks, I'm cured
Today, I told my mom that I'm bulimic and have been for a few years, and that I needed help. She responded by saying, "Well that's clearly not working for you. Why don't you try anorexia?" She then patted me on the head, smiled, and walked away. FML
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Mahomie123 0
that's when you say.."i must've gotten it from you mom!"
BeautifulxChaos 9
You can definitely change. It's called exercise and an attitude adjustment. But in all honesty, your mom should have comforted you, not put you down.
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little_monster21 0
should've been like "guess who I got it from!"
VaanBasch 1
Yay, a fat person FML! YDI, fatty!
THE_A_TEEN 28
Yay a douchebag. **** you, insensitive ass-clown...
ironik69 31
Ass -clown has been my favorite word for months now. Love your usage!!!!!!
exohazard 6
Unfortunately this is supposed to be an age 17 & up site/app. I suppose you could try something else, like the gym
blacknail3dfr3ak 3
You really can't. I'm fat and I used to get called things like that all the time. I still do. Be grateful your mother will be honest with you instead of filling your head with lies. There is nothing wrong with being a "fat bitch" if you truly hate it that much. Either diet or learn to love yourself
crownlogic 25
Honest with her instead of filling her head with lies? Seriously? My dad told me in junior year of high school that I was getting too fat and sent me to a weight loss clinic even though no one else thought I was overweight. It resulted in me getting an ED and needing treatment and now years later finally being okay. So maybe it was her mother's "honesty" but maybe this girl is perfectly fine and the girls her age are just being nasty. Your parents are supposed to love you no matter what you look like.
leadman1989 16
Honesty is the best policy. Maybe you didn't know you were a little chunky or bitchy. But now you have something to work at. Ok your mom gone op? This is what you do you're gonna need gasoline, mustard gas, a golf club, and five orphans.
ikickgingers 15
... duct tape, zip ties, 3 lbs of bacon, a bottle of captain, two q-tips, and please put hybrid moments on repeat.
yoyoyowassup 3
trust me girl i have been there and whats even worse is that someone else...some randomass person is sending me these things anonymously...and really i know honesty is the best thing but srsly its not like we dont know that, we obv do but we dont need to hear that from other people
HomeAl0ne 20
If you didn't suspect something like this before now, you might as well make that "stupid fat bitch" so we don't have to go through all this again in a few months.
ironik69 31
Sorry OP. That blows ass! I came home from Elem School everyday because of the same crap. You just gotta suck it up and learn that what others think of you is not nearly as important as what you think of yourself. Smile and keep your head up!
msaju17 5
Aww, people suck. What they think of you shouldn't matter, don't let them ruin your life. Be proud that God made you the way you are :) BTW, this seems to be a Meg & Lois Griffin moment.
kaykay20 0
Actually you can change how you act and your weight. She's not a very helpful mom if she says your stuck being like her the rest of your life. Don't listen to her and try to better yourself.