By amber - 13/03/2010 09:03 - United States

Today, I bitched out my boyfriend for logging into my facebook account and deleting EVERY male (even family) off my friends list. He accused me of wanting to cheat on him and has forced me to say "sorry." FML
I agree, your life sucks 39 856
You deserved it 17 738

Same thing different taste

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jerseystreetking 0

he forced you to say sorry? do you have no free will or backbone? you deserve it. my ex did this to me and I dumped his ass right then. that's a bad sign and you should get out before anything else happens. controlling you is NOT healthy. wow

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jerseystreetking 0

he forced you to say sorry? do you have no free will or backbone? you deserve it. my ex did this to me and I dumped his ass right then. that's a bad sign and you should get out before anything else happens. controlling you is NOT healthy. wow

jerseystreetking 0

and you replied to my comment because???

The OP is clearly a doormat. Unless he waterboarded you, then you weren't forced to say sorry. Just dump him and delete your facebook. Two useless things will be out of your life.

it's the new way of commenting, replying to the first comment I do it too.

XxKeLs3yxX 0

because you were asking a question. why else would she reply to ur question? put 2 and 2 together.

I disagree with dumping FB, but everything else is spot on.

a guy shouldn't force you to do anything

WTF! And why are you still with this douche?A boyfriend like that would drive me NUTS!

cocopuff96 0

jerk... dump him.... well I would..

jee weird much? I think he's having trust issues maybe from a relationship before.. I don't think you should say sorry you did nothin wrong.

OP dumb him it's never good to be with an insecure guy.

jerseystreetking 0

rhetorical question, and are you the OP?!? didnt think so

jerseystreetking, it's useless to bitch at people for replying to your comment. It's going to happen whether you like it or not.

Blue_Coconuts 7

I'M REPLYING TO YOUR POST WITH NO REAL INPUT TO WHAT YOU OR THE FML SAID JUST TO BE UP TOP.

Agreed. Are you trying to beat the a-hole bf in the other FML post where he made her put his clothes on or something?

jerseystreetking equals fail. Good day.

Your with this guy, why? Have a backbone, if he's like this now it's only gonna get worse, since you let him get away with it this time.. stand up for yourself woman!

*snrk* Sorry, I'm now thinking of It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia.

beccaishereyay 11

ydi if you actually said sorry.

jerseystreetking 0

noooooo I actually find it cute that he deletes the guys..that means he feels jealous and wants u all 4 himself! but apologizing..I don't know, u should talk about it. and yea, log in his fb and delete all the chicks ; )

xhalighx 0

toute_petite - So you're one of those women that isn't allowed to go out of the kitchen without permission, gets beat for looking at the waiter at the restaurant, and thinks it's all cute, amirite? You're mental.

#224, how the hell did you come up with all that from her thinking his jealousy is cute? It's funny how if anyone doesn't feel the same about the situation as you people do, they're automatically submissive women who get beaten and enslaved by their boyfriends.

jessi_ld 2

holy shortz that's what my ex did when we were dating and he deleted all my guy family members cuz I lost all my guy friends when we got together

xoconnie 8

break up with him duh. also, change ur password. ur not supposed to give your password to anyone! didnt ur school counselors teach you that!!!!NEVER....EVER......TRUST ANYONE!!!!! dun dun dunnnnnnn!!!!!!!

bezach 0

facebook is no big deal so idc lol

TrekkieGirl 0

Ridiculous! OP, you're an idiot if he's still your boyfriend. FYL for being so spineless and letting someone "force" you into apologizing.

dance_till_dawn 0

Coledes19? She's a dumb bitch ****? Ummm... why? You are a douche!

kaleid0scopeEyes 0

#240, if you seriously don't think that there's a problem with the OP's psycho boyfriend, you are probably just as controlling and crazy as him.

topherweaver 0

ydi for planning to cheat in him hahaha he can tell

agreed. that's incredibly stupid that you would even submit when he is the one on a psychotic rampage.

EdmGirl 2

Toute_petite, c'est con, ça! Un peu de jalousie c'est cute, mais ici... And OP, dump this guy's ass before they find yours, dead in a ditch somewhere! This guy sounds scary crazy.

Felendris 0

YDI for using Facebook. seriously. use your phone. who has Facebook but no phone?

haha epic fail lol wow really dump him b4 he kills your brain and over runs you

hes a bad boyfriend, not only does he not trust her, but he is also controlling enough to make you say your sorry. i would strongly suggest dumping him

You know, cheating on your bf with male family members is a big no-no. Next time cheat with a female relative.

abusive relationship much?! you are weak and should see a therapist immediately, I bet your dad is controlling too.

Seriously why do chicks let guys walk all over then like this. its such a turn off, grow a backbone cause nothing is hotter then a confident chick

ranya03_fml 0

Why does he even have your password? Pff. You totally deserve it.

Wow you gave him your password because?id change it like..NOW!!

jerseystreetking 0

yea i dont think it counts as "bitching him out" if you end up apologizing for him being insecure, might want to consult a dictionary on that one. But that sucks don't take that shit

first of all a boy shouldn't force you to do anything second why are you with someone Whois obsessive that means ifyou two break up hemight just stalk you thrid break up with himbefore you get in even deeper with him and mabey get a restrainingoder just in case and last ate you a ****** retard and if soyou give the rest a bad name idiot

luigima 0

1) you shouldn't give ur password to other people for that reason 2) why the **** would u apologize for having male friends obviously the dude has problems. you should dump his ass before he ends up beating the shit out of you, cuz that's the next step.

when did she say she didn't have a phone?

DenBriZel 31

Being controlling and forcing her to not be friends with any guys (EVEN FAMILY) is NOT "cute". And stooping down to his level is even worse.

haha that's ******* funny... you have one crazy-ass bf

Wow, two people with good hyphenation, right next to each other! I'm seriously amazed and impressed :) …. There is hope for the world.

I think he was trying to spell deutsche. As in German. I don't blame him for thinking every bad person is German--they did kill a lot of innocent people.

Doubtful. He was trying to spell douche, but it turns out he's about 7-years-old so he couldn't handle it. And OP deserves it. Anytime the FML involves a bad relationship, it's OP's fault for not ending it.

false, you're implying the holocaust actually happened.

I think you need to get out of that relationship #6.

MasochisticFreak 0
Bruingirl103 0

i agree. he "forced" her to say sorry. she couldnt even stand up for herself. girls who alllow this shit to happen, annoy me.

Unless she knows kung fu or something, it's a very risky move for a woman to stand up to a controlling boyfriend directly and right then and there. This dude will rape you if he ever gets the chance, OP. Seriously, that's creepy as ****. Even family? That's not just your run-of-the-mill psychotic jealousy, he's making no secret of the fact that he wants to isolate and control you. If you do see him again (which I don't recommend) come back with a weapon or several badass friends who can back you up in a fight. This kind of thing could get very ugly. Since you can't (and nor should you) physically run from him (assuming you don't live together...god I hope not) send him a short, strongly worded email informing that he is never to see or speak to you again and that if he shows up at your door he will be shot for trespassing (or arrested, depending on where you live). Make that the last word you speak to him. This guy's a psychopath.

xbreberryx 5

thank you very much fo rtell me im fat bc i had no fuking idea!! yes i also know im a bitch so *** you

Unless she knows kung fu or something, it's a very risky move for a woman to stand up to a controlling boyfriend directly and right then and there. This dude will rape you if he ever gets the chance, OP. Seriously, that's creepy as ****. Even family? That's not just your run-of-the-mill psychotic jealousy, he's making no secret of the fact that he wants to isolate and control you. If you do see him again (which I don't recommend) come back with a weapon or several badass friends who can back you up in a fight. This kind of thing could get very ugly. Since you can't (and nor should you) physically run from him (assuming you don't live together...god I hope not) send him a short, strongly worded email informing that he is never to see or speak to you again and that if he shows up at your door he will be shot for trespassing (or arrested, depending on where you live). Make that the last word you speak to him. This guy's a psychopath.

I agree with a_borshunist. This is not normal behavior. Get out quickly and safely. Read the book 'The Sociopath Next Door'. It's a quick, interesting read about people who seek to manipulate others. Good Luck

LOL @ #162. That was probably the dumbest thing I've read on here, but it was amusing.

actually, what 162 is write. I took a psychology class last semester and the teacher was talking about abusive/controlling relationships. One of the first signs is isolating you from friends and family. Once that happens, you need to get the hell out.

IOwnedYou 0

Wow. You know not every guy is gonna rape you, right? And how did you come up with him beating the shit out of her? Alls he did was be extremely jealous and be controlling.. It doesn't mean he's a psychopathic serial killer xD. And anyway, if I were a girl, and if I were in her position, I would defend myself, even if he were going to beat me up, because if he wins, I just gave in to terrorism. ;) Think about that.

Domestic abuse is one of those things that's hard to understand unless you've been through it or know someone that has.

xbreberryx 5

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What? Are you being racist? I can't really tell because of your horrible grammar.

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matrael 0

What is your damage? There is nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite gender. It doesn't imply that you're in competition or about to lose your love interest to someone else. Typically, it's your controlling and jealous behavior that pushes romantic partners away; not their desire to be with someone else. Crazy scares people. Dial down the needy a bit.

#12, you are a horrible person. And clearly a moron.

XxKeLs3yxX 0

obviously #12 you have serious issues. No woman in their right mind would want a guy to control them!!!

why the **** would you bring racism into this? you're ******* ignorant. do you even know what that word means?

wow 12, you have got to be one of the stupidest ***** alive. getting pregnant solves nothing and actually makes things worse. and that's not "wanting you to only love him" it's controlling and a form of abuse. you can tell you've had a lot of healthy relationships..

nobridgejustwate 0

Uh, having a "controling bf" isn't something to laugh about. Girls have a right to bitch about "there controling bf" because a "controling bf" isn't healthy for a relationship. Many "controling bf"s end up abusive and/or maaajor douchebags. Also, learn how to spell and get skinnier so your pudgy fingers don't get tired typing full words. By the way, dating an African-American is NOT the solution. Get the **** out of here you racist bitch.

kimosabi55068 6

xbreberry, you are a moron. being that jealous and so controlling is what a lot of people would consider a psycho, she deserves someone who trusts her and let's her have a life of her own. putting up with that shit is just opening the door for more abuse later

yada_yada 0

Holy balls, you are a moron. Please kill yourself now.

uhh, how would getting pregnant help anything?

koco4 0

wow you've got to be the dumbest bitch on the planet. please don't have kids and curse this earth with your vile genetic material! not only did you say a girl shouldn't complain about a controlling ( and potential, if not currently, abusive) boyfriend, you insulted the entire black race with your comment.

GeorgeBoosh 0

@12: I've read that comment before

OMFG! STFU #12! Go crawl back under that moldy rock you came from and just die.

gtdoll 0

I see everyone else has already gotten to bitching u out, I'm not gonna take too much time out. all I'm gonna say is FAIL.

My thoughts exactly...c'mon guys, it's not even a well-veiled one...

xbreberryx 5

actually you said way more then fail so fail on you

Lol. That's your only response to this? FYL fat bitch for being a dumb fat bitch. Normally I don't comment on people's weight but I think your initial comment justifies it.

xbreberryx 5

again i fuking know im a fat bitch ******* thank you captain ******* obvious

ahahahhahahahahahaahahaha! oh man this is halarious! not only are you fat, your ugly. and not only are you fat and ugly, your a complete moron that will stay with a controlling asshole because you can get anyone that will treat you right. and getting pregnant won't help anything and it will make things worse... please tell me how getting pregnant would help because I'm like super confused. you stupid fugly idiot.

okay so go get an abusive bf and let him control your life. me thinks it's obvious you want someone else to think for you.

xbreberryx 5

most guys leave when there girl is preg. duh

nessalujin 0

@12, your ******* stupid. Notice your the only fat, racist ***** on here. Not only that, your a fat racist ***** who says ''he's only trying to love you'' or whatever. Only you would say that because you can't get any better than controlling, abusive bfs. This should be an FYL. As for OP, dump him!

CyclonePsycho 1
blueeyes24 0

Did you really just say that most guys leave when their girlfriend gets pregnant? What kind of guys do you associate with? Some people take responsibility for their actions and getting pregnant never solves a problem... it only makes exsisting problems worse.

xbreberryx, I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess that you spend WAAAAY too much time watching Maury Povich and not enough time studying. And where the hell is Snickerdoodles?! She would have a field day on your ignorant ass just for your grammar alone!

cady2 0

this comment and all the replys made me laugh SO hard ;) especially the gtfo one :D

PrincessesCrown 17

FYI 12 it's not cool to say "*******" repeatedly!

mks100 0

Girl, a boy doesn't need to control you and life has more to it than just that and getting pregnant! If my boyfriend did that i'd b pissed and people like you make me sick.

It's spelled than, not then. Perhaps you should spend more time learning the difference between words such as the above mentioned, as opposed to shouting out support for abusive relationships.... You ever been in one, btw? Somehow, I don't think so.....you kinda deserve to be, though.

The_9th_Doctor 18

#12 Were you by any chance dropped on your head as a child? Or maybe flung at a brick wall?