By Anonymous - 15/11/2009 14:47 - Canada

Today, after dating for almost five years, my boyfriend stated that I have a "perfect and amazing personality" but that my looks are not what he "envisioned himself spending the rest of his life with." In other words, I'm ugly. FML
I agree, your life sucks 39 820
You deserved it 3 959

Same thing different taste

Top comments

avfcfan89 0

well, at least you have a great personality.

what the... even if you were absolutely drop dead gorgeous, no one is spending the rest of their lives with it. He does know people age, right?

Comments

You will have the last laugh :) because even if he finds someone gorgeous who will marry him, then he will have to watch as they disintegrate with age, and he will be stuck with a wrinkled, ugly, foul person with zero personality. You on the other hand I am sure will find someone much better for you

nonynony 0

Exactly! And to be honest, if that hasn't occurred to him, he sounds pretty idiotic. It sucks, but you're way better off without that kind of stupidity.

Ok So get dolled up! Your job is to attract the hunters to you! Its basic humanity 101... Lol

awuh_man 0

I know it sounds mean, but maybe he didn't mean it the way you took it. and even if he doesn't think you are goregous, at least he's been with you for so long and he loves your personality and you've both found someone to love. i'm not going to say i'm very pretty, but I know a lot of what people like me for is my looks. so i'm never sure who like me for me. and you've found someone who does. congrats(:

its kinda like michael cera and his girlfriend he had before he got famous. shes really ugly, and now thats he's gotten famous and such , i think he dumped her even though they were together for a long time. weiiird.

it's not weird or unusual. it does make him a douche though

well hes right and doesnt have to stay with an ugly GF!

ha. That sucks, but that could also mean he's trying to sayy he likes you for you, not your looks. :) You never know what guys mean. Unless he was breaking up with you when he said it. If so, get a picture of him facing the left and another guy facing the right and photo-shop it to be the two guys kissing. The take a picture of the picture with your phone and send it to all his friends, all you friends and even print some out and stick them to the walls all over school or his work. :D Always makes you feel much better. :) PS. The second guy should be someone you hate or highly dislike so you don't feel bad about it.

i_am_best_so 0

I get it. I am a foot-in-mouth sort of woman and I would likely find myself saying something like this trying to be open and honest with my partner. I never envisoned myself with someone shorter than me. And here I am, married to someone two inches shorter (I am a 6' tall woman). You're overreacting. No one wants to share your poopy party. Blah.

I'm sure he didn't mean to offend you, unless you think looks are more important than personality. :)