By Anonymous - 19/09/2014 16:06 - Belgium - Poperinge

Today, my boyfriend broke things off, because he says I have a "horrible, horrible personality" and that I'm only really fuck-buddy material, which is a problem because he wants something long-term. We've been dating for three years. FML
I agree, your life sucks 39 159
You deserved it 3 907

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Something is wrong with him!

He's an asshole, but at least you found out about it 3 years into it and not 30. Hope you find somebody that appreciates you.


Something is wrong with him!

SarahSehhati 40

Exactly who just randomly after 3 years says something like that? Well OP be glad you didn't waste anymore time than you did on him. A break up is a hard thing to get through but you will do it and be stronger from it :)

I agree with 10. He dated you for 3 years OP and I'm going to assume that you were happy during most of that time, so there's no way he has actually felt this way or he wouldn't have been with you that long. Sounds like he just wanted to break up and was angry at you for something so he tried to dump you and hurt your feelings as much as possible. Anyone that can break up with someone like that and undermine the relationship as if he didn't enjoy it or choose to be with you during that time is a jerk and isn't worthy of your time or heartache.

He's an asshole, but at least you found out about it 3 years into it and not 30. Hope you find somebody that appreciates you.

brendejafulable 41


Is he stupid or something?

Nope. Just cheating.

#38, please, share your source that states he was cheating? It is entirely possible to stay in a relationship with someone who is horrible for a long time, til you eventually just can't take it and leave. Especially if they rush in to dating without properly getting to know each other first. And i know this, because I've been there myself. Got to know a guy, or at least thought i did, and started dating 3 months after meeting. Another 3 months in, the great, thoughtful, sensitive guy changes overnight into a thoughtless, selfish asshole who was only interested in getting what he wanted. Constantly ignoring my feelings and wants and being selfish, with only his needs and wants mattering to him, with plenty of verbal abuse he didn't think he was abusive. I eventually walked, but not til I'd spent almost 3 years with him, in absolute hell, in a relationship he thought was great because it was all about him. Why did I, and possibly Op's boyfriend, stay so long? Because love can develop quickly, and it can be so hard to accept the person you fell for changed/is gone, and you give them chance after chance hoping they change and go back to who they were when you had the good times. I certainly didn't one day up and tell him it was over because i was cheating, but simply because i was done letting myself be treated like shit, there was nobody else. I wasn't quite as mean as Op's ex, but only because i didn't have the guts to tell him how i really felt, or he would definitely have gotten "You are a horrible, abusive, excuse for a man".

dpook 7

#50 relax

#50 go away

Razi_tail 25

Well three years to humans is like three months to tortoises right? He just forgot to convert the time you've been together over.

I give you an A for creativity. Too bad it wasn't seven or we could have converted it to dog years.

Aww :( at least you don't have to waste any more of your time on him...

What a dick.

Not "long" enough??

Only one thing to say, he's lying.

SexyMexi21 23

Your dating a prick..

not anymore she isn't

For the love of god... You're***** How do people not know this yet?

It could have been a typo or auto correct

For someone to say something like that to you after three years of investment, you are clearly better off without him. Don't worry OP you will find your special someone, while he will be forever searching.