By lala - 11/11/2010 02:49 - United States
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He probably did it because it wasn't a topic you two somehow stumbled upon. More likely is that you started bitching about how fake they all looked because you're so insecure.
Not saying it wasn't a douchey move on his part, but maybe she learned something about maturity and relationships. Obviously he is with her despite her flaws, so maybe she shouldn't be so ******* insecure about herself with someone who accepts her already. Maybe he should have found a better way to tell her that, too. Fuck off.
Oh my...someone's vicious today!~ There are many reasons why the little darling could have been insecure. Maybe her family teases her over every little thing about her? Maybe her classmates harass her? Maybe she's a very average sized darling, yet her co-workers call her fat? Sure, she's in a relationship, but that doesn't mean she's completely free of being insecure. You never know what other variables in her life exist to make her feel bad about herself if she does.
As far as insecurities go, acceptance is the mature way to handle them. There is no such thing as "bottling up inside you", so I'm not sure what fairytale world you live in. Probably the same one in which you're completely oblivious concerning whether or not you should feel embarrassed about the stupid shit you say.
Oh, I just don't worry about what people think of me!~ I already look fairly strange by choice after all!~ It's not always difficult to just accept one's insecurities though. Especially if one is constantly judged because of whatever that insecurity may be (weight, skin condition, fashion sense, personal taste in music, etc.). Who wants to just accept something that's brought up in a negative light?
You could say that lashing out at random people on the internet without any provocation was immature. One could also speculate that the angry response and lashing out was a mere side effect of insecurity in their life that they deal with by cutting others down or getting into arguments on the internet. The general name calling and bully like tactics normally stem from insecurities. Just some random thoughts to put out there.
Um, yes you can. Girls need to get over the fact that they aren't perfect. We all have flaws. Was it a dumb thing to say? Sure. We don't know how it was said though. Either way, what's important is that he still loves her in spite of any human imperfections. If he didn't, THEN he'd be an ass.