Not in the mood

By Sad lady - 29/03/2024 15:00 - United States

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Today, I found out my husband is sleeping with someone else, all because we haven’t had sex in a long time. He says, “Jerking off is too much work” and “I signed up to marry a human with a sex drive, not an emotionless robot.” He left out the fact that I’m grieving my mother’s death. Thanks for the support, Honey. FML
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Same thing different taste

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If this were in any way a healthy relationship in the first place, your grief and his natural desires would have created a series of conversations, hopefully civil and respectful ones, rather than him going vigilante and cheating. Sounds like he did you a favor and decided he’d volunteer to be the bad guy.

He is wrong 1,000,000 percent. This is not a YDI. Just curious what " a long time" is to him. I mean did you two stop when your mom died last month or 3 years ago? if it's been 3 years since you two enjoyed each other, then F His life for sure. but if that is the reason you stopped way back when, then the mourning period is well past in most cultures.

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He is wrong 1,000,000 percent. This is not a YDI. Just curious what " a long time" is to him. I mean did you two stop when your mom died last month or 3 years ago? if it's been 3 years since you two enjoyed each other, then F His life for sure. but if that is the reason you stopped way back when, then the mourning period is well past in most cultures.

You'll be well shot of that sack of shit.

so what is a long time? a few months or a year? he shouldn't have ever cheated that's messed up but if it's been say a year or more your the problem.

If this were in any way a healthy relationship in the first place, your grief and his natural desires would have created a series of conversations, hopefully civil and respectful ones, rather than him going vigilante and cheating. Sounds like he did you a favor and decided he’d volunteer to be the bad guy.

I think more context is needed though cheating is never acceptable