Sounds like they are talking, but the right questions aren't being asked. He did ask her why her sex drive wasn't higher. Based on what op said, I can assume she didn't talk about it. Nothing in a relationship gets better unless you talk. YDI, op. Also, they also make a cream that helps guys last longer. Just saying.

He Complained - that is not the same thing as asking. Bitching about a problem doesn't solve it. Which applies to the OP too, since apparently she'd rather just avoid sex than actually try and address the issue.

i completely agree with you, but sometimes the partner doesn't listen and their ego gets hurt and blame it on you. Had that happen with an ex. That's why he's an ex.

Same here. If it's been a while, it's going to be a quickie. Sorry, nothing can be done about that. But when it's regular, the wife usually gets off 2 or 3 times before I'm there.

lol I love when sex lasts longer than an hour ?

You're lucky #2. My boyfriend lasts over an hour which can be tiring but at least I get to have more than 1 ******. I do feel bad that I can't get him to finish during intercourse (I usually help him with my hand or mouth at the end) so we talk about it and try different things. Communication is definitely key to a healthy and happy relationship.

I have a different problem. She finishes before me. After orgasming too much she gets too sensitive and tightens. :c

#56 how's that a problem

Because he can't finish.. Thought that was plainly obvious

The only kind of ****** is a clitoral ******. Freud's myth of the "immature" clitoral ****** and "mature" vaginal ****** needs to die.

I know plenty of women that would disagree with your clitoral only ****** theory.

I think it's because both kinds of orgasms come from the ********, it's just that what we think of as the 'clitoral' ****** comes from stimulating the external part of the clit and what we call a 'vaginal' ****** comes from stimulating the internal part of the ********. But, 24, does it really matter? The different types do feel different and those words are a good way of distinguishing between them.

Interesting!! I'll look into that. But there is also nipple orgasms..as well as anal but maybe that is associated with the clit too.

I would say not necessarily. I can have both and the nipples at least does not stimulate my clit. There are those "mind orgasms" too where nothing is physically being stimulated.

People who don't give a shit about what others tell them don't exist, right?

^ they exist. but they should be single until they learn better.

Communication is important, but what kind of dumbass needs to be told that if he never gets his wife off, or even tries for 1min to do so, that she's not going to be interested in having sex with him? Duh!

Obviously the dumbass that is her husband.