Remind her you'll leave her at a nursing home and never visit her again. What kind of mother would shit on her kid like this?

its tough but try your best to stay strong and find people you can confide in. ride above that low bar she's setting, you won't be with her forever

What kind of graphic language is this mother using to her 13 year old child???

She’s a terrible mother. Sorry OP. :(

Try not to judge her to harshly, parents are just people and we aren't always at our best. Good luck.

Ah, so the figurative "pain in the ass" is worse than the literal one? Isn't it ironic, don't you think?

I'm very sorry op. I do not think she means that. Stay strong

For those saying things trying to justify her mother’s words as a “mistake”. There are many mistakes parents can make. But telling your kid that you wish they were never born and that it was a mistake having them is purposeful mental abuse! And even though it could it could have been said out of anger, it was said with intent to hurt OP. And now the OP will have to live with the fact her mother even had the idea to say those words. I’m sorry you had to go through that OP. Stay strong until you can leave that situation.

Whether OP's Mom meant it to be purposeful abuse or not (and I sure hope it's not meant to be) it still hurts and has the same effect, OP. My father in law was verbally abusive to my husband because he has anger issues, but it's still abuse. Only a few more years. Hang in there.

thats abuse! Work insanely hard in school and get out of there. That is honestly the best way. You'll want to escape and it will definitely be harder without a healthy home environment but, it will definitely be the best way for you to build a life for yourself. Cool thing is school has clubs, groups, newspapers, and all sorts of stuff to get involved in that will help and keep you busy and away from home. Different political groups accept young volunteers too, so thats another option. Just stay out of the house, focus on school, and stay busy with extra curricular activities.