The problem is not that she thinks it's demeaning or gross to give a BJ. The problem is also not that she enjoys receiving oral without wanting to give it. The problem is that OP is not happy with the arrangement. If she only wants to receive, and OP is happy with only giving, then both parties are happy. As it is though, she is being demanding and manipulative by threatening to withhold sex, and both parties are not happy. They don't need to immediately break up, but they need to talk about it. If her reasoning is that he's getting to ****** through sex so it's only fair she ****** too, OP can say he can accomplish that with his hands unless she's willing to return the favor.

Situations like this are exactly why **** was invented. If you wanna get funky and she won't compromise then simply go fap and leave her heavily unsatisfied. You'll see how long it takes for her to turn

That's because male and female oral sex is totally different... Putting a penis in your mouth is very uncomfortable Also women ****** clot orally not vaginally so that's probably why she wants you to go down on her before penetrative sex

OP, you must be a lesbian then since you have no balllzzz!

Tell her to get with it or get lost

Sounds like you're the Beotch! Good luck with that.

Next time she wants some, kick her out, and when she asks her why on earth you would do such a thing, tell her it's "DEMEANING" and "SICK"!! Srsly though, just talk with her in a friendly way about how hypocritical she is being. Gl op

Wow.. Really get a new woman dude.. If you treat her like a good guy should.. Then what the hell is wrong with her sucking you off?? Oral is amazing both ways!

I feel your pain

Refuse to go down her and show her just how funny that can be.