Love, Health and Diets: Food fight

Food fight

By hss - 30/05/2011 01:59 - United States

Today, my fiancé and I had a fight because he wouldn't let me get what I wanted to eat, even though it was my money. He said, "It's way too many calories. I'm supposed to help you lose weight." When I pointed out that I had given up a month ago, he looked at me and said, "Yeah, I can tell." FML

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Same thing different taste

By henley - 23/07/2012 01:33

Today, I told my boyfriend that I didn't want to go out with him because I was having a fat day. After ten minutes of fighting, he threw a ring box on the floor and stormed out. I basically refused his proposal because of my body issues. FML

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Sabotage!

By I choose health - 11/04/2022 18:00

Today, my boyfriend admitted to purposely sabotaging all my weight loss efforts. When I confronted him, he said it’s because he doesn’t want me to get thin and turn into one of those stuck up, snobby, mean girl types that wouldn’t date him in high school. We’re in our 30s dude, get over it! FML

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Quite the catch

By Ms. Piggy - 02/03/2014 19:09 - United States - Clarksville

Today, I was shopping for dresses when my fiancé turned into what I can only call a groomzilla. He told me and my maid of honor that we need to lose weight because he's not "paying all this money for a pair of fatties to not look good." FML

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Harsh

By anonymous - 14/12/2011 05:42 - United States

Today, my boyfriend sent me a text that said, "I can't be seen with you anymore. You're too fat." FML

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Pound for pound

By Anonymous - 27/04/2021 14:01

Today, my girlfriend had a huge fight with me because while I'm trying to gain weight and she’s trying to lose some, I’ve still lost more weight than her. Not my fault my body’s natural preference is to drop pounds like they’re hot. FML

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In sickness but mainly in health

By Tiff - 27/11/2023 16:00

Today, during our wedding, my new husband said that he’d divorce me if I “let myself go.” Later, he couldn’t understand why I'd got upset and told me, “Why are you so worked up for? If you don’t want that to happen, just eat healthy and exercise daily, it's not that hard.” FML

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By thinner than you - 20/11/2012 21:57 - United States - Hillsborough

Today, my boyfriend broke up with me because I'm now about 15 pounds overweight. When I called him a hypocrite as he's over 40 pounds overweight, he said that his weight didn't matter because "it's the girl's job to look hot." FML

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Big Mac

By Raiden - 10/03/2013 16:03 - United Kingdom - Barnsley

Today, my girlfriend accused me of being a feeder, saying that's why she's been putting on so much weight. When I said it might be because she eats at McDonald's everyday, and that I was willing to start cooking low-calorie foods for us, she hit me. Then she went to McDonald's. FML

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By Anonymous - 28/02/2016 15:57 - United Kingdom

Today, my girlfriend dumped me because I've recently become serious about getting fit, and have lost nearly 84 pounds. Apparently, when I was fat, I made her look smaller in comparison. When I got slimmer, she insisted I either gain the weight back or she'd leave. So she did. FML

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By overachiever - 18/07/2009 21:35 - United States

Today, I proudly informed my boyfriend that I am now a size 4, down from an 18, after months of dieting and exercising after he told me he would like me to be a size 6. He broke up with me for "not listening to what he wanted" and "being an overachiever". FML

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HeaRTs_Girl 0

Monday 30 May 2011 8:54

No matter how you spin it, this situation is just ******* sad. Good luck, assholes.

herrobear 0

Monday 30 May 2011 9:09

You asked him to help you lose weight at some point. He agreed. That means he has to do his job and encourage you to lose weight, even when you say you give up.

Comments

missymoo123 0

Tuesday 31 May 2011 0:48

how do you know he is even large? her fiancé could just be a total health freak?

flpgrc1 0

Tuesday 31 May 2011 1:47

******* dump the guy... yea loose weight and what not but fuking dump hem....

Oniat 2

Tuesday 31 May 2011 3:38

YDI. If you give up that easily on something, then I can see why he'd be miffed. This stuff takes TIME, it isn't going to happen overnight, and you MUST remain persistent. Diet + exercise works, but changing your body's metabolic rate is not an easy/fast task, considering how long you've retained that much weight. It ticks me off when I hear people complain and quit because they're too weak. My grandmother (in her early 70s mind you) indeed has a defective thyroid, so her metabolism is shot. Guess what? She's lost weight since her thyroid screwed up and has never looked better because she remains active and watches what she eats like a hawk. Don't give your fiancé flak because you're too feeble-minded to follow through and change yourself for the better..

Ike1600 0

Tuesday 31 May 2011 4:02

One warning sign of an abusive relationship occurring is that same kind of controlling attitude... not saying that's your situation OP because it could just be him caring about your health but thought I'd give a comment aside from the oblivious deuchebag comment like " well lose weight then " or something to that extent. A person should not be judged on a outer appearance that is constantly deteriorating, but their personality which normally change...

wthowell_2010 0

Tuesday 31 May 2011 4:14

man that's ****** up

shestheone718_fml 0

Tuesday 31 May 2011 5:20

wowwwwwww

shaubygal 11

Tuesday 31 May 2011 6:10

ha that is all

Monkeybutt1 0

Tuesday 31 May 2011 6:13

If you are so fat that your man tells you so, loose weight! Take his advive and thank him for encouraginf you and watchin out for you. (:

Lonely_MILF 0

Tuesday 31 May 2011 6:35

**** him. While I believe you need to ensure you are a reasonable weight for your own health, he's a jackass for saying that. Never let any guy (or girl) treat you like shit or talk down to you. Any partner should encourage & support, not belittle.