…were you supposed to run from your robber in the elevator or what?? How does any of this make you stupid? You csn get more money and valuables but you only have one life.

Sometimes people scream and say stupid shit because they're scared for you. You can either tell your mom to back off or ignore. Ultimately, none of it was your fault.

One response: "Alright, if that is your reaction, then I won't tell you about what happens in my life from now on!" FYL

If your mom was your first call, you are stupid. Your first call should be the police. Your second should be a lawyer. Your third call should be to building management to demand restitution for your loss and mention that you have the lawyer.

It depends a lot on context. If you are a child that’s a reasonable reaction. If you are an adult you call the police, not Mom for comfort.

I hope you called the police first. But it's ok to be scared and traumatized. My wife's uncle was killed in an elevator robbery, so definitely not something to treat with scorn.