what a rude bitch.

YDI for being a coward.

I hope next time they ditch you the same way.

Grow up

so do you get off on cruelty or...?

if you lost interest, just tell him that. otherwise, he'll think he did something wrong when it was actually you being a coward.

I would have said “no sir my date is at that table I’m getting something out of the car”

You're a grown adult. You should have enough respect and decency to just tell him you're gonna head home and you don't think you two are compatible. The only reason for sneaking off on a date-gone-sour is if you sense he's aggressive and going to lash out physically. But you were probably wanting him to still foot the bill or are too cowardly to just be direct. YDI.

women want independence but want a traditional man...pay half and tell him you not interested...have some self respect

Good on the server for calling out your shitty behaviour. Next time, be an adult and use your words.