By Anonymous - 25/11/2019 14:00 - United States - Buffalo
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You should break up with him. Obviously, the cheating itself is unforgivable, but just the fact that he’s keeping a list of all the people he’s slept with is bad enough. What a child 🙄
Having multiple partners does not mean he's a vector for disease. Responsible safe sexual practices can be engaged in without discussing one's full sexual history with any partners. This is a disgusting attempt at shaming legitimate healthy sexual behavior. The only thing we can presume from the post is the OP's boyfriend was unfaithful to her & her best friend was complicit in it.
Okay... Various thoughts. First, your boyfriend is pathetic for needing to keep a literal list of conquests.. Secondly, he's a douche for cheating. As for being bisexual... Meh it's the 21st century
Your second and third points are spot on. The first... it's eminently reasonable to consider that he's trying to be a responsible sexually active individual. He may not have any STIs but if he contracts one, he'll need to inform people. Such a list makes it simpler to know who he's been with since his last testing cycle
Nevermind his infidelity, what the hell were you going through his phone for? That would piss me off. Respect people's privacy. You had no right to snoop in his phone. I bet you think you did though. Well, you are WRONG! For finding it when you shouldn't have : ydi For being cheated on in the past : yls