By Anonymous - 25/11/2019 14:00 - United States - Buffalo

Bisexual!

Today, I found a note in my boyfriend's phone titled "People's I've had sex with". There are also dates next to the notes which represented the day he had sex with them. Not only that it was NOT me who is the last person on the list, but I also realized that the last person on the list was my best friend. And he's a guy. FML
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By  Laurea Lindroos  |  8

You should break up with him. Obviously, the cheating itself is unforgivable, but just the fact that he’s keeping a list of all the people he’s slept with is bad enough. What a child 🙄

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By  Laurea Lindroos  |  8

You should break up with him. Obviously, the cheating itself is unforgivable, but just the fact that he’s keeping a list of all the people he’s slept with is bad enough. What a child 🙄

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Maybe he’s just keeping track of who he’s had sex with in case he discover that he has STD then he will know who he needed to contact to let them know to get tested.

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  ImpKit  |  7

Having multiple partners does not mean he's a vector for disease. Responsible safe sexual practices can be engaged in without discussing one's full sexual history with any partners. This is a disgusting attempt at shaming legitimate healthy sexual behavior. The only thing we can presume from the post is the OP's boyfriend was unfaithful to her & her best friend was complicit in it.

By  manb91gb  |  11

Okay... Various thoughts. First, your boyfriend is pathetic for needing to keep a literal list of conquests.. Secondly, he's a douche for cheating. As for being bisexual... Meh it's the 21st century

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  ImpKit  |  7

Your second and third points are spot on. The first... it's eminently reasonable to consider that he's trying to be a responsible sexually active individual. He may not have any STIs but if he contracts one, he'll need to inform people. Such a list makes it simpler to know who he's been with since his last testing cycle

By  Sonotsuave  |  32

See this is kinda why I’m happy to be single sorry. If it’s all real and not a joke, dump him obviously, get yourself tested and definitely talk to your friend

By  1gullible_bugger  |  33

Nevermind his infidelity, what the hell were you going through his phone for? That would piss me off. Respect people's privacy. You had no right to snoop in his phone. I bet you think you did though. Well, you are WRONG!

For finding it when you shouldn't have : ydi

For being cheated on in the past : yls