When people pleasing goes too far
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You should've been honest or at least have tried to turn him down gently. "I don't date people I work with, as a rule." Or something like that. If you lost him as a friend, then he was never your friend. You should not have put yourself through that as it has made you seem like a push-over. Be more assertive and more honest in future.
I tried to date my ugly smelly friend and I hated him... sounds like FHL...
Maybe her mom picked him for her?
I've done this, thinking that maybe I'll get over it and I'm being too judgy. It usually takes about 6 months to come to the inevitable truth, we are who we are.
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I don’t understand? You a pick a boyfriend you don’t like?
You should've been honest or at least have tried to turn him down gently. "I don't date people I work with, as a rule." Or something like that. If you lost him as a friend, then he was never your friend. You should not have put yourself through that as it has made you seem like a push-over. Be more assertive and more honest in future.