Everyone can be a 7

By Diet Time - 16/06/2024 14:00 - United States

Today, I summoned the courage to ask out my best friend of 4 years. I’ve had a crush on him for a while now. He told me, “Thanks but no thanks, you’re a great friend but I don’t find you physically attractive enough to go out with.” This always happens with every guy I try to get with. It sucks to be ugly and fat. FML
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JuneBleeds4 17

At least he was honest. Could he have been more gentle? Absolutely. You going on about the rest of the nonsense is just fantasy... Why would you put those thoughts in their head when they're already hurting? Thats just as cruel. OP, I'm sorry your friend wasn't more considerate of your feelings with how he responded.

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Iamthebanzai22 21

It has been scientifically proven that complaining online about guys not finding you attractive will do absolutely nothing to make you more attractive. However, choosing to live a healthier life will make you lose weight and make you more attractive. It also has many health benefits and will have a huge impact on your self confidence. I do understand that complaining about other people's perceptions is easier, but working on yourself is the one thing that you can actually control and it is way more effective. Start with small steps, it will gain momentum. Good luck!

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copalolita 11

Why so many YDI’s? That was just mean. Forget him. Why would you want to be with someone so disrespectful? Just imagine if you did fit his description of “physically attractive” Heaven forbid you have a baby with him and gain some weight or you get older and the wrinkles start to come out. What? He’s gonna leave you like a hot potatoe? Nah girl. You deserve so much better than someone so shallow and mean. The guy who will think you’re the bees knees will love you for who you are on the inside and out.

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JuneBleeds4 17

At least he was honest. Could he have been more gentle? Absolutely. You going on about the rest of the nonsense is just fantasy... Why would you put those thoughts in their head when they're already hurting? Thats just as cruel. OP, I'm sorry your friend wasn't more considerate of your feelings with how he responded.

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copalolita 11

Wait. I wasn’t being hurtful at all….. I was saying how worse she would be off had he reciprocated her feelings. I personally wouldn’t wanna be with someone who only sees me as a trophy girlfriend/wife.

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Rake 16

Because obviously it disturbs her to be in the weight she is in. She should either accept it and go for the type of guys that will find her attractive as she is, or change her look and weight to look attractive to the type of guys she is aiming at. Either way it's her choice. so YDI

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JIMMY2CHAINZ_84 2

you are 100 percent in control of your weight loss/gain. maybe you should start there.

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Iamthebanzai22 21

It has been scientifically proven that complaining online about guys not finding you attractive will do absolutely nothing to make you more attractive. However, choosing to live a healthier life will make you lose weight and make you more attractive. It also has many health benefits and will have a huge impact on your self confidence. I do understand that complaining about other people's perceptions is easier, but working on yourself is the one thing that you can actually control and it is way more effective. Start with small steps, it will gain momentum. Good luck!

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MaximB 12

Do YOU find yourself physically attractive? IF not, you can train, lose weight and change that.

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