Maybe you ought to send your current boyfriend over to kick his ass. Don't have one? Why am I not surprised? Look, lady, get your act together or you'll have to tolerate assholes like that or end up a crazy cat lady!

He sounds insecure and desperate for attention. Don’t give it to him. Otherwise you’ll always be the person he talks shit to when he is feeling sorry for himself.

The point goes to you since your ex-boyfriend obviously doesn’t have a life of his own to focus on.

Well, by posting that on here you clearly aren’t “keeping calm”