Unstable

By Anonymous - 21/10/2021 17:00

Today, after three months of hooking up and talking about dating, the man I was supporting emotionally went back to his ex, who'd reduced the restraining order on him to a no abuse order so they could be together. He left me in his bed to go be with her. FML
I agree, your life sucks 931
You deserved it 496

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Hahah his emotional support while he has a restraining order in place? Sounds like you have been fooled by him too and need to be there for the other woman more than anything. Abusive guys only ever change were severe and specific counseling or retraining.

Keep working on him. He sounds like a keeper! With domestic violence looming, you can never get complacent or bored. And isn't excitement the #1 thing in a relationship?

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Cut them all out your life, no your worth and move forward. Life is stupid but durable when you invest emotion in yourself.

Keep working on him. He sounds like a keeper! With domestic violence looming, you can never get complacent or bored. And isn't excitement the #1 thing in a relationship?

Hahah his emotional support while he has a restraining order in place? Sounds like you have been fooled by him too and need to be there for the other woman more than anything. Abusive guys only ever change were severe and specific counseling or retraining.

Ummm count your blessings. You were gearing up to be his next victim. You’re worth better than that, and there is someone out there who is much healthier for you. I hope his ex learns this lesson, too. I feel bad for you both. Hopefully this guy gets what’s coming to him or gets help to break his pattern of manipulation and abuse so he stops hurting people - physically and emotionally.

consider it a blessing and know you are better off.

Wait what’s a ‘no abuse order’? Is abuse not illegal anyway? Why do you need an order to tell you not to abuse someone?!

This guy must look amazing.