fiancee here....she has "non epileptic" seizures, which means they can't pinpoint the exact cause. they affect her entire body, so when she stops seizing, it takes hours or even a day or two for her to not feel the effects from them. the medication she is on makes them less likely, but obviously doesn't fully prevent them.

I'm sorry for the both of you. I'd be finding a better job if that's how said boss wants to be about a serious medical condition you have no control over. fuck that. you deserve better