Ouch! That’s gotta hurt. It would help if you talked out exactly what your wife wants and expects during sex and also what you enjoy most. That needs to be done when both of you are feeling comfortable enough to discuss this honestly. I believe that anyone can improve their sex life if the partners are able and willing to communicate honestly and without verbally attacking either.

Tell her you want a divorce and then jump into bed with her. You can choose whether to change your mind or not afterwards.

I hope you mean EX-wife!