What about me?

You should ask her why you don’t get any action like her old BC did !!

Rookie mistake. Don't ever get married, dude.

Simple; u ASSUME she gave old BF “head” because she knew he was too small to satisfy her vaginally. You’re not getting any “head” bc she’s worried you’d choke her.
Perspective, m’man.

that comment in and of itself is assuming. whether or not that may be the case is wishful thinking but being a man who enjoys the act regardless of his size would appreciate receiving it nonetheless

Interesting prospective I’ve never thought about.

Get over it. It's in the past.

It's probably more her than anything to do with you.

A lot of women get less and less adventurous as they get older. You just got stuck with one of those types.

with age comes reduced spontanous romance

So if she's your wife, you should be able to talk to her about anything. Just tell her you're interested in that too. Of course, she may be of the mindset that fair is fair; do you do the same for her? If not, stop crying!

And that’s how you know how little she loves you, or maybe she just settled for you. That sucks