By HanBroman - 17/03/2014 08:05 - Australia - Sydney
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Op here, I know the doctors right. It's something I'd suspected for a while but I guess I was in denial. before it happens it feels nice, like I'm getting really close and then BAM all the pleasure stops and is replaced by frustration and sensitivity until i have to ask him to stop because it's so unpleasant. (I've tried pushing on and eventually it goes numb) and this is predominantly from clitoral stimulation. internally i feel even less. I've tried everything. vibrators, special lube, oral (which I actually hate), all kinds of things. I have an extremely supportive boyfriend who is willing to try absolutely anything but nothing helps and it's been a year since we became sexually active. it's become very hard for me to get turned on now since I find there's nothing to look forward to about sexual activity.
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Still virgin at 18? Dude... Welcome to the friends one club haha. Get out there, make a fool of yourself trying to flirt, get drunk, and live a little!! You'll learn what "works" and what doesn't work. That's the only way to test the waters so to speak. I was holding my V-Cards all high school (got my confidence built up doing other things) and eventually lost my virginity at university 0-week; 4some with three girls who refused this cocky/confident guy was a virgin. Go out there and live!!
You might have the worst luck ever...but I feel like you're/he's doing it wrong...my condolences. Try a vibrator? Or your hand. Anything really.
How would the doctor know whether you're having an orgasm or not? Is he the one having sex with you? Time for... 1. 2nd opinion 2. Discussion with partner 3. Sex appliances 4. ???? 5. Profit!!!