By HanBroman - 17/03/2014 08:05 - Australia - Sydney
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By HanBroman - 17/03/2014 08:05 - Australia - Sydney
Op here, I know the doctors right. It's something I'd suspected for a while but I guess I was in denial. before it happens it feels nice, like I'm getting really close and then BAM all the pleasure stops and is replaced by frustration and sensitivity until i have to ask him to stop because it's so unpleasant. (I've tried pushing on and eventually it goes numb) and this is predominantly from clitoral stimulation. internally i feel even less. I've tried everything. vibrators, special lube, oral (which I actually hate), all kinds of things. I have an extremely supportive boyfriend who is willing to try absolutely anything but nothing helps and it's been a year since we became sexually active. it's become very hard for me to get turned on now since I find there's nothing to look forward to about sexual activity.
Agreed. That's probably the worst thing to be told. "You're orgasms are not pleasurable so it won't be ideal to have sex for fun, just reproduction." I'm so sorry OP.
She can still have sex for fun, it's not just about the ******. It sucks not being able to experience it, but sex can be fun in other ways.
I said it wouldn't be ideal to have sex for fun..
#98 why not? I can still have fun pleasuring my partner and what I have is still fun. why isn't that ideal?
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Show it anywayatleast OP is having sex.. some of us are still virgins..
You know you guys can message each other instead?
Still virgin at 18? Dude... Welcome to the friends one club haha. Get out there, make a fool of yourself trying to flirt, get drunk, and live a little!! You'll learn what "works" and what doesn't work. That's the only way to test the waters so to speak. I was holding my V-Cards all high school (got my confidence built up doing other things) and eventually lost my virginity at university 0-week; 4some with three girls who refused this cocky/confident guy was a virgin. Go out there and live!!
What is wrong with being a virgin at 18 or even older i think it's a great thing.!!!
All of you calm down. at least you have something to look forward to.
I'm quite afraid a doctor would tell me the same thing if I went to one about it
You might have the worst luck ever...but I feel like you're/he's doing it wrong...my condolences. Try a vibrator? Or your hand. Anything really.
There is a new one on the market called a Rabbit! Bloody hell! If that doesn't bring you to highly pleasurable ******, nothing will.
Really!? Cool will do! Lol
How would the doctor know whether you're having an ****** or not? Is he the one having sex with you? Time for... 1. 2nd opinion 2. Discussion with partner 3. Sex appliances 4. ???? 5. Profit!!!
I assumed she described what she had been feeling during sex to the doctor and he confirmed that they were orgasms. Otherwise it is indeed odd.
Yeah I explain it in my other comment; #24 vv
Aren't two of those rules of the internet?
Try some alone time to work out what feels good and what you like. Then maybe show or tell your partner.
A true FML if there ever was one. My condolences, Op. :(
right exactly what I was thinking!
Maybe your partner just needs to spend a lot more time with their head in your land down under!
Guess you aren't so bold Dr.
ok you're screwed!
And not the won't to be
My god.. That is just... HORRIBLE
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How would the doctor know whether you're having an ****** or not? Is he the one having sex with you? Time for... 1. 2nd opinion 2. Discussion with partner 3. Sex appliances 4. ???? 5. Profit!!!
Well that's unfortunate OP.