Today, while I thought I'd never had an orgasm, my doctor informed me that I'm actually having orgasms almost every time I have sex. They just feel like utterly frustrating, slightly painful, unpleasurable and completely unsatisfying muscle contractions. FML
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HanBroman 20
Op here, I know the doctors right. It's something I'd suspected for a while but I guess I was in denial. before it happens it feels nice, like I'm getting really close and then BAM all the pleasure stops and is replaced by frustration and sensitivity until i have to ask him to stop because it's so unpleasant. (I've tried pushing on and eventually it goes numb) and this is predominantly from clitoral stimulation. internally i feel even less. I've tried everything. vibrators, special lube, oral (which I actually hate), all kinds of things. I have an extremely supportive boyfriend who is willing to try absolutely anything but nothing helps and it's been a year since we became sexually active. it's become very hard for me to get turned on now since I find there's nothing to look forward to about sexual activity.
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RedPillSucks 33
How would the doctor know whether you're having an ****** or not? Is he the one having sex with you? Time for... 1. 2nd opinion 2. Discussion with partner 3. Sex appliances 4. ???? 5. Profit!!!
DedicatedNova 13
Well that's unfortunate OP.
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nannyRayRay 14
This sounds similar to a male condition I have heard about (some king had it). I hope it is treatable!
FucYoCouch 13
King Louis XVI had a condition where it hurt to get erections, perhaps that's who you mean?
darkfireflame 15
Try clitoral stimulation.
domolovesyoshi 33
she replied that clitoral stimulation is the same
tehdarkness 21
Ya this sounds dicey. Try clitoral orgasams.
weveallbeenthere 30
sucks to be you.
Sparx1_1 16
There are certain areas around and on the clit that can produce exactly the response you describe even in people who have no issues. Try to keep the pressure less direct and do not pull back lips or tissue to expose the ******** itself. That will make things less intense and should help with your tolerance and sensitivity. ********** using only your fingers- while alone - just explore and you just might find that certain angles and different types of pressure make a big difference. Focus on relaxing. The physical part of an ****** is very close to a muscle spasm. Muscle spasms usually cause an automatic response to tighten up around the area and fight it (leading to muscle cramping) since most spasms are the result of injury or overexertion. The spasm itself is usually painless - if you can relax and allow the muscle to spasm without engaging your automatic response to make it stop then you will have a better experience.
weveallbeenthere 30
I feel bad for you, it is supposed to be pleasurable, but I guess you need to find out / figure out where to stop so you still feel satisfied without the actual ******.
wakingdream 2
OP, I had the same issue... clitoral stimulation was an issue, and penetrative might as well not have existed because I felt nothing pleasant at all. Are you on any medications? My problem turned out to be due to that. I stopped the medication and I'm fine now.
KJRowling 13
May I ask what kind of medication it was? I'm not on anything but contraceptives, but if it's to do with that...
HanBroman 20
I'm also on contraceptives. I've stopped them a month ago just to see how things changed, and it actually helped the build up and a I'm able to enjoy the ****** a tiny bit more before it turns to pain and sensitivity and stuff
vassal44 9
I don't know if this helps but it sounds like, the blood trapped in the clitoral tissue that causes the build-up isn't getting the sudden release that it is supposed to when you ******. This would cause the tissue to stay erect and there sensitive and painful when unaroused. I would suggest maybe checking for some kind of circulation issue if you aren't getting anywhere with your gyno
MattBenid_fml 12
Ahah, well it must be other ways ?
Camri_123 11
How awful! I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.
SuperStormCindy 8
Oh god that's terrible... I'm so sorry ):