By Anonymous
Today, my soon to be ex-wife told her friends that we're getting a divorce because I'm physically abusive. I guess that sounded better than the truth: that she waited 8 months into her pregnancy to tell me that the child probably isn't even mine. FML
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  Agtthepw  |  21

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  Agtthepw  |  21

#28 not at all, on the contrary: u meant to say that OP is probably a great guy and that his ex needed to find fake shitty reasons to justify to her friends she's leaving him.

  higgysaurus  |  18

Well, unfortunately, it sounds like a paternity test may or may not work in OPs favor, cause the wife just said she didn't even know who's baby she was carrying

  anonymuse_fml  |  31

72 - I think 41 knew that, but the FML said she said it "probably" isn't the OPs which means there is still a small chance it is. And obviously the OP and his wife were being intimate if he didn't question the fact she was pregnant at all so there is still a chance the test will come back that the baby belongs to OP which means there is no evidence he cheated and may appear as if he came up with the story only to make it seem like the wife was lying about the abuse (even though she was).

  jocamo  |  24

Let's do some math. Say the soon-to-be-ex told 3 of her friends that OP is abusive. They tell 3 of their friends, and they then 3 of theirs, and so on and so forth. It wouldn't take very long for a lot of people think this. That's why it matters.

By  Tripartita  |  44

Really trying to see any sort of silver lining or humorous aspect, but damn, this just sucks.

Hopefully, if her friends do believe her and are inclined towards violence, they won't try to harm you.

  LoverWordsFood  |  27

Listen to this information OP. Have a friend whose ex-wife cheated on him multiple times with multiple men during their marriage. He's sure the two kids aren't his but still cares for them like their his own. Make sure the bitch doesn't try to stick you with alimony and child support if the child isn't yours. I know that's a shit thing to say but if she's acting like a bitch, catch her at her game and make it know she's the asshole.

  mimirawr14  |  17

The father has to be preset for him to be put on the birth certificate well at least he does in my state don't know if it's the same everywhere else.