By Anonymous - 15/10/2013 20:52 - United Kingdom - Stretham
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This is super twisted! if she had just added pictures of herself on the bench next to your pictures then i would think she just wants to feel involved. BUT when she replaces the pictures its saying she wants to be in your girlfriends position!!! you are her son! WTF, its wrong on too many levels to name!
Sit her down and talk with her, OP. I don't get why moms do this. Same thing happened with my ex's mom, basically.
Parents will always think they have a right to your life and telling you what you can and can't do. That includes relationships. I mean they did raise you to be the person you are so I guess it's true they kinda have that right but it's better to explain to them when they cross the line.
OP, this is partially your fault. Your mother is going too far with the possessiveness. But how do you expect her to let go when you still let her clean your place? When my mother visits she is a guest in my house, not my mommy. She can help with dinner, but not clean while I'm out. Stop needing her and she'll take the hint.
Either your mum has a bad case of empty nest syndrome or she's going overboard with the whole memento-inception concept...