Idk about this one. His ex girlfriend may not really be an ex, it may just be one of those things where they're close friends and they kind of date but they aren't really that much of a couple and then they break up but because it was so casual they're still friends.

Please don't marry this prick. Unless divorce doesn't bother you.

I would say something, but my fiancé's ex girlfriend is a bridesmaid, so.. Lol but he didn't force that on me. We're friends.

Well.. Least he's talking about marriage right?

there's nothing wrong with being friends with exes as u maintain loyalty and trust

Um last time I checked the BRIDE picks the bridesmaids, HER friends and family, not his. Let her be a grooms woman if he wants her there so bad but i wouldnt marry that guy.

But he hasn't asked you yet? That's a strange thing for him to think about while talking about your wedding.. just saying.

I'm sure he is more than just friends with his ex. my favourite part is "IF we ever finally get married"

Why would OP want her boyfriend's ex invited or even help out?. You don't cross that mix together, it's awkward and weird. OP's boyfriend might just be cheating on her with his old flame and maybe he just suggested it because he feels bad. Anyway who knows why he'd say such a thing.

what the actual ****!? is your bf crazy? I wonder what other aspects of his life he still currently requires the company of his ex.....