By topaz23 - 16/04/2015 16:34 - Canada - Surrey

Today, my husband told me he doesn't see the point in trying anymore, and that he no longer loves me. I was devastated. He stayed on the couch while I went to bed. Ten minutes later, he said, "Do you mind? I'm trying to sleep." and asked me to shut up. FML
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topaz23 16

I want to thank everyone for their comments. When I went to bed crying it was nearly 4am and he had to pick up our 2 kids from his moms house at 6am. We have our issues and it's just one if those humps we are trying to get over. I posted venting cause I was frustrated. He travels lots for work and hardly sees me and our kids I think a big part of it is depression. Not that that's an excuse. We talked more before he had to leave out of town again today for 2 weeks and we are gonna try and resolve our issues though I'm not sure how well that will work out. But I am trying to stay positive. As much as it hurts he's doing his best to be honest with me and talk it through. We were both just very tired and like I said he had to pick up our kids. We have been together nearly 6 years. And he's the only person I love and trust the only ones I love more are our kids. Now matter how hard this is hurting me right now I am trying to look at the positive and moved forward.

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haileyrows 26

That's horrible- I hope you find someone better who will treat you right and deserve you. Until then, just focus on moving on and making yourself happy. It will get better, I promise.

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_kyleG_ 34

As much as this sucks and hurts like hell right now, he's shown his true colors. (they read: MAJOR ASSHOLE) This is an opportunity to find someone who will actually love and respect you- good luck!

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skoepp 3

Run. As fast as you can. Do not look back. Life is to short to fill it with assholes like that. Look for someone who loves you no matter what. He does not deserve you

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oobergoober89 16

Ouch. That's extremely rough and harsh. Looks like he's a shoe in for asshole of the year award. Sorry to hear that

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graphicstyle7 17

Yeah, my first husband was EXACLY like that. He finally left (I did not have the courage to leave), and my life has only been uphill ever since. Break up. Divorce him. Get therapy. Go back to school, or improve yourself in other ways or all of the above. Learn how to have more confidence. I have almost everything I ever wanted now. I'm incredibly happy, and it all started with getting that overwhelmingly toxic person out of my life. I did it, so can you.

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TomeDr 24

Been there. In the EXACT same situation. My ex, in order to not hear me sobbing, put on his noise-blocking headphones. Hun, get to a counselor. Best thing I can tell you to do.

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vikky538 28

Let him sleep. He need spend hundreds of sleepless nights once the divorce is settled by you getting half his ass

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Gillett 23

Wow OP. That's some bull right there. I mean ok, we get he doesn't love you but he just flat out disrespected you and he really didn't have to do that. I'm so sorry for you but at least you can have a change of finding a good one now that you have weeded out a bad one!

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Caroline_Grace_ 20

That's just cruel, you deserve so much better!

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Kurby14 21

I'm sorry that happened to you. you deserve so much better. don't let him keep you down! kick his ass out and tell him he doesnt deserve you! make yourself happy and don't let him take away your happiness! :)

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The_madmax 23

why would he tell you to shut up if you already went to bed and he stayed on the couch?

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Spadoinkle 10

Again, he was being a dick. She was crying in the bedroom, and it was keeping him awake. He not only broke her heart, but he had the nerve to tell her to shut up about it.

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