By topaz23 - 16/04/2015 16:34 - Canada - Surrey

Today, my husband told me he doesn't see the point in trying anymore, and that he no longer loves me. I was devastated. He stayed on the couch while I went to bed. Ten minutes later, he said, "Do you mind? I'm trying to sleep." and asked me to shut up. FML
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I want to thank everyone for their comments. When I went to bed crying it was nearly 4am and he had to pick up our 2 kids from his moms house at 6am. We have our issues and it's just one if those humps we are trying to get over. I posted venting cause I was frustrated. He travels lots for work and hardly sees me and our kids I think a big part of it is depression. Not that that's an excuse. We talked more before he had to leave out of town again today for 2 weeks and we are gonna try and resolve our issues though I'm not sure how well that will work out. But I am trying to stay positive. As much as it hurts he's doing his best to be honest with me and talk it through. We were both just very tired and like I said he had to pick up our kids. We have been together nearly 6 years. And he's the only person I love and trust the only ones I love more are our kids. Now matter how hard this is hurting me right now I am trying to look at the positive and moved forward.

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That's horrible- I hope you find someone better who will treat you right and deserve you. Until then, just focus on moving on and making yourself happy. It will get better, I promise.

As much as this sucks and hurts like hell right now, he's shown his true colors. (they read: MAJOR ASSHOLE) This is an opportunity to find someone who will actually love and respect you- good luck!

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Reading this actually made me sad

Ouch! I'm so sorry, OP! Keep your chin up - he doesn't deserve to see any emotion from you except disdain and disgust.

He should have just gone to sleep on the couch. Tells you "it's over" and then crawls into bed?!

he didnt crawl into bed. he was still on the couch.

I'm sorry but if this were real, why the hell would you go on FML afterwords?

That's cruel. Hope things work out better.

Take it from a guy. That boy (that is not a man) is an asshole. It's one thing to leave a woman. Yes some marriages don't work. But you do it with respect. You discuss your differences and talk it out. Then you comfort her. Then you are allowed to leave. You deserve better op. I'm sorry for your loss (if you want to call it that). Personally I think you are winning.

hopefully divorce laws in Canada are more lenient towards women in this case.

tanya8925 9

What a dick!! Time will heal your pain. I wish you the best

What a D-bag. I'm so sorry that you have to go through that :( after the pain subsides, however, the world will be at your beck and call. Stay strong, sweet heart. You certainly deserve better.